My bf is always playing with my boobs and I don't really like it. I already asked him to stop it but he got mad and said that if I don't let him, he'd dump me. He also forces me into bed to have sex. He won't let me up until he's had enough. I don't want to break up with him! I REALLY love him but I want him to listen. What should I do? Just talking isn't working!
2006-06-28 02:55:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he doesn't respect you... DUMP HIM!!
2006-06-28 02:58:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If talking isn't working and he is forcing you to do things you dont want to do then you need to get away from this person. NO ONE has a right to force you to do something you dont want to do. How can you love someone who treats you as if you do not matter? Trust me there is someone out there that would treat you as you should be. His threat of dumping you...well, dump the loser yourself because honey you dont need a man like that in your life. God bless and good luck
2006-06-28 09:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by sapphireblaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Secretly video tape him during this behavior or make it happen at a time when a responsible adult will be able to walk in on it so both of you are able to be seen, yet not the naked parts of you necessarily; and supply it to the police. I don't know how you could still love this person if it were not someone you had to love, like a family member. Exposing the bad behavior may be the only way to make this person come to terms with their crime and prevent them from harming other victims. It may also be the only way to get them help and to get over this sexual addiction illness.
2006-06-28 10:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by studzywudzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Desperate times call for desperate measures. The next time he tries it tell him no that you don't want him to if he pushes you that's rape and if he tells you that he's going to break up with you then tell him fine. Some guys just can't control themselves and they need a reality check. Or maybe he thinks that you're just playing because you always give in. That you really want to that you're just playing hard to get. If that's it then he won't but if he does break up with you then you really don't need a guy that can't respect you.
2006-06-28 11:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly loved you, he'd respect your wishes! Forcing someone into bed to have sex is considered "rape", even between a husband and wife. If he continues to do the things you don't want to do, and you already talked to him, the only choice you have is to leave him.....
2006-06-28 10:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your other question states that your only 16, maybe you should talk to your parents about what is going on. First its your body and if he is doing something that you don't like then get rid of him for lack of respect. If you tell him NO to sex and he still does it then its RAPE. GET AWAY FROM THIS LOSER THIS ISN'T LOVE.
2006-06-28 09:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by sweetdreamin96 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One should never be forced to have sex. Your body is your own. The bf sounds to me like he has tendencies to become a real controlling, abusive partner. Get out now.
2006-06-28 09:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by loveseat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it your boob or your nipple that bothers you when he touches it? I know that I dont like my nipples to be overly touched because they are so sensitive. If he said he would break up with you because you dont like him messing with your boobs then he don't love you and HELLO HE RAPED YOU!!!!!! if he forces you and you dont want to do it and you tell him no and he still does it its RAPE!!! Girl there aint no need in wasting your heart on some stupid asss man no excuse me he aint no man hes a boy anways dont waste your heart and love on someone who dont love and respect you and your body in return. Get out and move on before you it gets any worse!
2006-06-28 10:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by ProudSexySouthernGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to me it sounds like he only cares about himself and what he wants. Not what you want. Plus it sounds like he may even be a bit controlling. His actions could get out of hand one day and he could end up hurting you. I doubt talking to him will work because you've already asked him to stop and he won't. I highly suggest that you talk to someone close to you about this (and not your boyfriend) and maybe they can point out things that need to be brought to your attention. In my opinion...leave him. Things could get really bad in that relationship and just be nice about the way you leave him. There tons of nice guys out there who will treat you way better.
2006-06-28 09:59:19 · answer #9 · answered by daredevil_girl013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what your boyfriend is doing is called rape and it is wrong, he can go to jail for that. If he really loved you and respected you he wouldn't be doing that to you. Please talk to your mother or an adult you trust. Tell him to stop , if he dumps you then I think that may be the best thing he could have done for you. you deserve better and he needs to be punished.
2006-06-28 09:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE NOW! If you stay he will only become violenty abusive. That is not love and what he is doing is called rape. How old are you? if you are under 18 tell your parents. If you are18+ leave now! You dont need that. Nobody deserves that!
2006-06-28 10:13:00 · answer #11 · answered by pancake_tits_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋