im still a virgin and i wanna lose it with my boyfriend that i got a diploma and im kinda scard i mean how do i tell him i want him to be my first
2006-06-28 02:49:07 · 9 answers · asked by amber 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not sure where the diploma falls into things *scratches head* Is that new catch phrase? Do you mean diaphram? Some kind of birth control? Anyway...
Start by telling him you're a virgin. Then tell him how much he means to you, how he makes you feel, and what's so special about him. Tell him that you have so much trust and respect for him that you want to share this experience with him. If he feels ready to move into that phase of your relationship, then he should reciprocate.
But... if you're too shy to broach the subject so gently, just blurt out, "Hey! Wanna bump uglies?"
Have fun, safe sex.
2006-06-28 02:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Chryss 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You very very seriously need to consider this situation. I don't know how old you are, but sex is a big issue. You will be facing AIDS, STDs, and numerous other things. When the time is right, you will know. By asking this question, you are still unsure. Don't rush anything baby girl. When you look back on life later, you will wish you had waited. Things happen, like unplanned pregnancy, and even with protection, there is always a risk. Period. No ifs, ands or butts about it. Go to your doctor and get on birth control and use a condom. It's your life and your future in your hands. Think wisely and consider all options, then make an educated decision. It would be smart to talk to someone about it too like a medical professional. On the other hand, if you are going to do it anyway, BE SAFE. No sex is worth your life hunny child.
2006-06-28 09:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by heavensangel_0130 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are terrible with hints. Chances are you will just end up frustrating him that way so dont hint for any reason. you can- A. Tell him you want him to be your first. or B. initiate action and just let it happen. I would recommend B. Less awkward moments and NO HINTING. Guys hate that crap. its so hard to figure out. and as for waiting. Im sorry to say Nobody waits till they get married to have sex. there are many reasons why it is not reasonable in modern society. first of all the guy is not going to marry someone hes never had sex with. same for women. second say that did work out in a 1 in 1000000 odds eventually your going to be curious about what sex would be like with other guys which in reality would end up in a failed marrige. this is not the age of chivalry divorce does happen.
2006-06-28 10:03:06 · answer #3 · answered by thmslln3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a serious answer. If I were you I'd tell him. I'm a virgin, and I want you to take that from me. If your too shy to do that, I agree with the first answer, hints.However, I'm not married, and I'm not a virgin, and if there's anything I could take back I'd take back ever having sex with anyone. anyone with morals ends up regretting it. If you want to loose it with him because you love him, get married, and then you won't even have to tell him.
2006-06-28 09:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you some words of advice. Don't. My friends who have all done it before they got married to their boyfriend or girlfriend regretted what they did. They told me that they wish they had never done it because now that person isn't in their life anymore..so what good did it do them besides just one night of quick fun?
Save it and wait. Don't be like my friends who regret what they did and wish they never would have. Like one told me, once you unleash that beast inside of you, you're going to want it all the time and you won't know what to do when you can't have it.
2006-06-28 09:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by daredevil_girl013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the quetion you should be asking yourself is why do I want to have sex with someone that I am afraid to talk to. Communication is key to a great relationship and a good sexual relationship. Probally not a good idea to loose your virginity to someone until you can talk to them openly.
2006-06-28 09:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you are CONFIDENT he would BE THERE to MARRY you in case you got PREGNANT, that you could swear he is DISEASE FREE and that you are CERTAIN he would put his CHILD and your well being ahead of EVERY impulse he will have for the next 5 yrs.
that should get both of you thinking about sex...
2006-06-28 10:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you love and respect him and you want him to be your first because you trust him and would love for him to be your first
2006-06-28 09:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hints work
2006-06-28 09:52:38 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋