wat is a good age to have children ?

Answer 1

f u got money, have it early. longevity is directly ralated to parents age at the time of birth.

Answer 2

I think it has to do with your life style. For instance, you have to look at your age. Are you recently married? Are you in your early 20's? What kind of career are you in?

My opinion, if you are a career person,, maybe you can wait until you are in your 30's before having a child. Work towards what it is you want to offer to your family, a home, secure and financial stabilty for their future and so on.
If you have a child at 40, you have to take into account they will live with you until you are at least 60.

Now on the other hand, if you are young like 20 having a child at this age might be a good thing, by the time you are 40 and and your spouse can travel and pick up from where you left off before being pregnant.
Then again having a child at this young age, the question is, are you ready, really ready to have a baby at 20?

The person to answer this question is you. Only you can decided when to have a baby. Usually your heart lets you know when it is time. maybe you need to listen to your heart.

Answer 3

Well speaking from personal experience I had my first child at 21. I wish that i had waited, there was a lot of things that I wanted to do before having children. I can say that I was not prepared financially for motherhood. I have just recently purchased my home instead of renting.On the other hand I feel I have a close relationship with my children my oldest son graduated this year and will start college in the fall and we have discussed allot of issue. Private intimate issues that I don't think we would have discussed if I would have been older.
I have a friend who waited till she was 43 to have her 1st child and she is really stressed all the time and has decided to have only the one child. Her house is almost paid for her car is paid for but her patience is short.. I hope this helps

Answer 4

The younger the parents, the healthier, happier, and more psychologically stable the children. Young parents can bring up their children with enthusiasm and love of life which builds up their morale and infuse in them the desire for achievements, thus become ambitious and successful. There's no specific age for this, although between 20 and 27 is recommended. The worst timing for the kids is to look around at the age of 5+ and see elderly parents or guardians attending to their needs or answering their curious questions. That environment kills the spirit of a new comer to this life who is full of hopes and colorful dreams.

Answer 5

27

Answer 6

Its not what age, it is how well 'off' you are. If you are able to support yourself, with some extra cash... and if you are out of the drinking on the weekends, bar scene, and ready to settle, then you are ready..
Some people are at this stage before others....

But I would say around 26-27

Answer 7

for women 25 and up...for men 30 and up....it all has to do with experience in life, developing your indivuality and definitely maturity.
too many unexperienced young people having kids...they don't know how to be parents. And when the poor child makes a common kid mistake...these parents go on a verbal, emotional and sometimes physical rampage against the kids.

Answer 8

When the both of you feel the time is right. You can never put an age on when to have them. It should be a mutual feeling between the both of you.

Answer 9

At least when you are over 21 years of age. When you are finacially stable and have all the neccessarry support from your family and/or friends

Answer 10

Arround 21 because children don't wanna have old parents

Answer 11

When you are content and happy with yourself and your relationships (significant other, family, friends). You also need to be able to afford them since they are expensive little humans, but maturity level and contentment with life is most important, I think.