Should men who are in a relationship beable to go to strip clubs why ro why not?
2006-06-28 02:24:49 · 34 answers · asked by Cat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends, if you can trust your man then let him go, hes gonna come home to you anyways. If there are trust issues ask to go with him.
2006-06-29 09:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by dave a 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Cat, I think that is a matter of personal opinion, last year I would have said what does it matter, because there's not contact and so forth. However, now it is not so much the idea of contact or looking at another woman, let's face it men do that and so do women, it's human nature. My issue with them is that it is a form of sexual objectification, ask anyone who has been in a situation involving sexual violation and I can promise you they feel similar about the fact that sexual objectification or a woman or a man is wrong, because it leads many people to feel in control and that is dangerous. So, I have to say regardless of relationship or not, I don't think strip clubs are a good idea anymore, and regardless of gender. Before any guys go off saying that no guy would listen to that, my guy friends respect my feelings on this and refuse to go to these places, when you know a woman like me and many of you may just not know you do yet, you will feel very different when you find out.
2006-06-28 02:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the ultimate good that comes from visiting a strip club? Do men have a better respect for for their mates/women afterward? Does their view of women become more than just an object for their desire?
Men who are in relationships, whose mate is not comfortable with him going to strip clubs, should not go out of respect for their partner.
While the female body is a beautiful thing, there is something to be said about the objectification of it.
2006-06-28 02:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by truly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally feel that they should not go to strip clubs, because what the girls can do there, I can do at home for him and the best part about that, is he can touch what ever he wants to touch.Because if you think about it what do females do at strip clubs? They dance and the gentleman drinks. But that my opinion everybody is different.
2006-06-28 02:32:10 · answer #4 · answered by mookie_101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not. Really truly being in love with someone means that you want them and only them. I would never consider going to a strip club and having fantasies about men other than my fiance. I literally cant' even think about another guy in a sexual way without getting nauseous. I don't want my man looking at other naked women other than me.. I mean what do you think is going through their minds while they are just "looking"... duh,, they are mentally cheating on you. I think it's not so big a deal however unless you're married.. that's when I feel it's absolutely WRONG. outside marriage,, depending on how serious the relationship is,,, its a grey area for me.
2006-06-28 02:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by its still me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how much trust you have in your relationship and what boundaries you have set in your relationship. If you're not going to be okay with him getting a lap dance or can't stand the though of a woman putting your hands on your husband and shoving her (beeps) in his face then I'd go with no. If you do have the trust then I'd say why not?
2006-06-28 02:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends is he going there to hang out with his friends or doing something the misses will get mad about . If he is with his friends then let him go ,just not all the time.As soon as the idea of him going alone comes in play you might want to stop and think what if he wants to go because there's hot girls there because most likely that's why a guy goes . (To get a peek or two)
2006-06-28 02:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i think strip clubs are degrading and wrong if your a chick then put it this way how would you like for your husband to go watch naked weamon on a bar dancing around and the other way around if your a guy and if you really loved your spouse then you wouldnt need to see other people naked
2006-06-28 02:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by amber 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly..NO. If they are in a relationship then maybe they should get a strip show at home. Lookin at another woman lustfully is cheating in my book
2006-06-28 02:40:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think strip club are just horible. my xhusband use to work at one.
as a bouncer and i went sometimes just to see what they where all about. OH MY GOSH! No way!!!! i think they need to close all of them down. it is just a wat to have legal prositution! they had a back room that just you and the danser went back to and you paid for each song to play. you got to do what ever you wanted as long as that song was playing. it was gross. and i think it is a way for the guy OR girl to cheat and not ffeel guilty. bc it is leagal.
i think it is totally wrong. and if you have any any any care of your other person you are dating you will not go there. if you are single then maybe sence they are still open to the public. but i think they need to close them DOWNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-28 02:30:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. strip clubs are primarily a fantasy. the relationship women are realities.
2006-06-28 02:30:09 · answer #11 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋