This guy came here 4mnths bk nd i met him online.Initialy we were chating aftr tht he sms me nd aftr tht we strtd talkin on phn.Frm da vry first day i knew he is commited to a gul fr 5yrs,so i always talkd wit him as a gud friend,but aftr few days he proposed me nd i was really shockd by hearing tht frm him,and askd him how cud he say me this but he was sayin agn n agn he made up his mind so he wants me to be wit him,As i said bfor he was vry new to this plc and never been here bfore above all he says he dosnt like anything over here not evn a gul,so i really wonder n confused thn why he loves me,nd how cud he break a lng term relationship fr a gul whom he knws fr a month,now its near abt 4 mnths but am still in da dark what it is? Is it love or he jst passing time wit me who is frm diffrent culture? Till now he contacts wit his ex whn i askd how he feels now for her,jst said nothing much!
It will help me if someone let me know where i really stands in this relationship?PLZ HELP ME!
2006-06-28 02:20:24 · 4 answers · asked by nicendpretty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems like you don't know each other well enough to really make a decision... but if he says that he doesn't want to be with her, and you decide to try it out, make sure he really isn't with her... I don't know if you guys met in person or if you are just online friends, but online pen pals aren't always the key to a good relationship. You have to make sure that if he is not with you in person, he's not just writing to you and spending his time with his real life girlfriend. be careful and take care of yourself... and spell out your words please... I almost didn't respond because it took me forever to decipher your abreviations.
2006-06-28 02:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by lizwatson109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes guys tell gurls they have a g/f to seem more like a catch, some gurls like taking guys away from other women, like the ones that mess around with married guys. females think by other gurls giving their seal of approval that he is more worth having. maybe your guy was just lying to you all along. there never was a g/f. just an illusion for you.
2006-06-28 09:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all its so hard to understand your wordings, anyway, you would never know what you truly feel for him unless you try being with him...if he breaks up with his long time gf, that's fine, that's not your problem, go on and try a new relationship with him..and him being in a different culture is never an issue
2006-06-28 09:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by dede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds for real but be carefull girl there are some creeps on the in ternet but if i was you i would stick with him
good luck
2006-06-28 09:26:20 · answer #4 · answered by amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋