i eat lunch in the same place always so when should i introduce myself to staff and other regulars.?

Question

its getting e,barassing at this stage to see the same faces and not name them

Answer 1

if the staff wear nametags, greet them by name and offer yours in return--"so we don't "hey you!" each other!" if they don't wear name tags, smile and say, "I feel badly I haven't asked your name, you take such great care of me here!" When they introduce themselves, return the favor.

As far as other regulars go, they may want their privacy, or may not. Smile at people in a friendly way and watch for an opportunity. Wait to have talked to each other a time or two before trying for introductions.

Good luck! =>

Answer 2

Well John, an interesting question. Not enough people think about that when eating at the same place regularly.
It is essential that you know the names of the staff that you see , as well the manager or owner. The staff will appreciate the respect and the owner will be happy that you've made the effort.
During one business lunch an associate spoke with the manager as though they were old friends, and everyone at the table felt more comfortable, immediately. On several occasions, with the same associate, in other restaurants, he did the same thing, it was very impressive and a lesson learned.
Remember you're going in to their "homes". As far as other patrons, be carefull, but the staff will take care of it.

Answer 3

It pays to be nice to the staff I've found, but also, if you see other regulars every day, then why not use it as an excuse to get to know more friends. Perhaps smile at them a couple of times during the week first so they don't think you're a random nutter, then introduce yourself. I did that on the train in to London the other day and found out I'd just introduced myself to a chap who actually worked in the same building I did and we travelled in together the next day and had a lovely chat! Very small world... Why be one of the grumpy enclosed gits of this world, when you could be a happy friendly person? :) Go make friends!

:)

Hope it goes well...

Answer 4

It sounds like you never spoke to anyone in there before!
next time you talk to the staff about the state of the economy or the weather or something akin, just ask I'm sorry What's your name?!

Do you live in london?

Noone sees or talks to anyone there!

Answer 5

Put the question to the maitre di.or owner.....
.......i suggest a "regulars - get together party '.......
.....or a "thank you for your custom party", as a device to introduce people........in that way...those who want to integrate or not.......can do so without awkwardness or intrusion........and save embarressment......
On the upside.........life is short and why not advance/expand our relationships......too many ships pass in the night......anyway its your idea...you must want to extend the hand of friendship.....or curtosy...perhaps you would make a good host/ess!
If your idea is rebuked...just let it go.......or follow your heart if your gettin positive vibes....Anyway.......dont be a nuisence.

Answer 6

God yes! You don't have to give your name but say, 'Hi, hows your day? Then things will just happen naturally, they'll start talking back and before you know it you won't be able to shut them up.

I love talking to people, It's a family thing, you'll find waiting at bus stops talking animatedly to complete strangers, its the bomb! I'm always amazed at the things people tell you!

Answer 7

Remeber Jack Nicolson in 'As good as it gets'. Don't think I'd want to be too familiar with the staff and regulars. You may be viewed like he was.

Answer 8

Its a slow process, theres the smiling, saying a little comment once in a while, asking how their weekend was, and eventually it turns to a friendship. Now you got to work out whether or not to say hell to them if you happen to see them outside of the workplace?

Answer 9

I'd say if you're feeling uncomfortable about it, now's the time. Just say, "Hey, I've been coming here for a while, but I've never learned your name. I'm _______."
Then, call the person by name the next time you see them. "Hi, Jim!" or whatever.

Answer 10

You don't need to do it all at once. There must be some occaisions when you meet them individually. Probably easier that way...your name will become known and people will respond to you.