ok... every week i keep having the same dream over and over. i`m standing in this dark tunnel and there is no light. just darkness. all of a sudden i feel someone breathing on my neck and then i hear "you are not who you think you are." the voice and breathing dissapears and then i look forward and see my boyfriend standing there holding his arms out to me screaming for me to never let him go. please help me.
2006-06-28 00:00:04 · 6 answers · asked by star 2 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
You yourself could answer this question...You feel that you are living a lie....and you are feeling guilty for living a lie and not being yourself....someone other than your boyfriend is trying to convince you that you are living a lie while your boyfrind is trying to convince you to stay with him..Is he in the light? seems to me the tunnel is the darkness or wrongness you are feeling the voice in coming from within the darkness and your boyfriend is in the light...someone is trying ot convince you that your life is wrong but you feel that this voice is somehow coming from the darkness...although your boyfriend may seem needy he is in the light and you can see him and the voice you cannot see therefore less trustworthy..your are torn between two lovers the one you are with is clingy yet you feel this is what is right the one in the darkness you cannot see is less worthy of trust but he is telling you that you are living a lie...have you cheated with another man? is the darkness guilt? is the other man teling you to leave your current boyfriend? Is the current boyfriend needy? is the other one less trust worthy or are you having a hard time giving your trust to the other man? have you lied to either or both of them? you have to make a decision based not only on what is best for you but what is right and wrong...and guilt is playing a big part of your dream....
2006-06-28 00:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by djmantx 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Let me analyze for you..
This dream obviously is about relationship and your innerself.
You probably are a lonely person and don't have too many friends in your social life. Even if you do, they are not your type of your friends. You cling to trust only your boy friend because you found him and you think he is the only one you can trust.
1. dark tunnel - you put yourself in a situation that no one can understand, in social life, you will be left alone many times. You hate to be seen most of times.
2. someone breathing on my neck - this someone is your innerself
3. You are not who you think you are - you may have split personality. or there is something you hide from a lot of people.
4. see my boy friend holding arms to you - at the scary movement, you only think of the only person that you trust the most, that you depend on the most...-- your boy friend.
You don't want to let any close relatonship go because you are afraid of being alone.
I hope your boy friend will be your other half. Otherwise, you may enter a dark tunnel without help next time. Make sure you have a healthy good relationship with your boy friend..
--- your dream doctor!
2006-06-29 17:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Star! This dream seems to be trying to correct a misconception that you may have about yourself. You are standing in a place where you don't see many options for yourself. You only see one path, and it's not a bright path. But then the voice (who knows you better than you know yourself) tells you that "you are not who you think you are". You were meant for greater things! You are not limited to the single path that you are on now. Breathing on your neck is symbolic of breathing life and hope back into you - giving you the will to pursue your destiny! You have to decide if you will follow your heart and pursue your destiny, even if it means letting go of other things in your life that want to hold you where you are.
2006-06-29 22:20:31 · answer #3 · answered by Dreamseer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, how does the darkness of the tunnle make you feel? Is it possible that you feel there is another pert of you that has nothad the oppotunity to reveal itself, like a world traveler, or artist, or something totally unrelated, even?
if you mentally tap into this part of you, do you see yourself having less need or desire for your boyfriend? When he is screaming for you to never let him go, are you feeling that you want to reach back and hold him, or are you feeling like he has some idea that you don't want him so much???
Just my guesses on the dream, and the route I would consider for finding out about it.
2006-06-28 07:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by Fitchurg Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me this sounds like you are not being your true self and that you are allowing your boyfriend to make you into someone your not comfortable with. you are doing things for this boyfriend that your true self would not do. in your dream he sounds controlling as well, and needy. you need to let him go and walk out of that tunnel and find your true self, who you know deep down inside you really are. good luck and know that the outside of that tunnel is much better than it is inside the tunnel.
2006-06-28 07:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
strange, my first thought is that your subconscious is telling you you like women? might this be true? i could just be crazy...
2006-06-28 07:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by T-RoZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋