my girlfriend is absolutly gorgeous but unfortunatly a lot of other guys feel the same way, she gets alot of attention and looks when we go anywhere, but she never seems to notice. i cant help but get jealous. i trust her and no that she wouldnt do anything, but its the guys i dont trust.
2006-06-27 23:48:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude you are responsible for your actions, your girlfriend is responsible for her actions and the other guys that are giving her the eye are beyond your and your girlfriends control.
She isnt bothering with them. Shes there with you! You need to settle down. If you start getting upset over it or bringing it up and making a big deal of it you are going to scare her away as she hasnt done anything wrong and shouldnt be punished because of someone elses actions.
You said you trust her so go out and have a good time. Know that you have her and they dont.
A guy can try whatever he likes but she would have to be a willing participant for anything to happen. You said you trust her and you know she wont do anything, so chill out and enjoy your time together. If you see a guy gawking at her, put your arm around her and walk around with your head held high and the biggest grin on your face.
Stuff everyone else.....
Cheers
Say you live in a small town and its the same ones doing it over and over you could get a shirt saying Im with her and an arrow pointing towards her. Or a tshirt with a finger giving the flick on the back.
2006-06-27 23:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
My fiance says the same thing about me. He notices it all the time when we are out but I don't. Just chill out and enjoy being with her. Trust me, if you start letting the jealousy take over then this will cause probs for you and her. Just pull her close to you and kiss her when you see it happen - this is a sure way to make you feel better and make the other guys jealous! Enjoy it, life is too short to worry. If you trust her completely then that is all that matters.
2006-06-28 01:44:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK as an old lady tell u by getting jealous u wont get nowhere ,,, even she might get upset ,,,, just with small things like 1 flower or 1 poem or whatever what not expensive show how u loves her ,,, we girl mostly know is all guys big mouth and appreciate some1 who is different and cares ,,, btw don't spend money on gifts I'm not talking about that
2006-06-27 23:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by yyaliceyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel proud when other men look at her. You know who she comes home to at night. There is no need for you to trust the men, because they dont matter. She loves you and if she didnt then I doubt she would be your girlfriend. Dont let insecurity come between the two of you. When others look at my girl I just grin because I've got what they want and cant have.
2006-06-27 23:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you trust her, that's all that matters.. why should you trust the other guys? they are not a part of your relationship! It's natural to be jealous and untrusting to people outside of your relationship, just dont let those feelings run your relationship, Be open and communicate your feelings to your girlfriend..
2006-06-27 23:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by stubborn_lil_devil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A jealous boyfriend isnt a good thing when it comes to girls. You just need to suck it up and be thankful that your girlfreind is pretty and with you. I know from experience if your flipping out about a guy checking her out eventually she will get sick of it and leave you.
How would you feel if she was getting upset with you over something that you maybe could not control?
2006-06-27 23:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by Stormy & Dena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You trust her, so the problem is yours. Do you ever look into other peoples gardens and admire the flowers? naturally and is the same for those men looking at your sweet girlfriend. Be proud! I too would most likely like to look at your girlfriend but she would not want me, she wants you. Be proud!
2006-06-28 03:46:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't seem to notice, cool! Be yourself, enjoy your time with her. I'm sure that you will be jealous, but keep it in check and keep your self confidence up or that will be your undoing and then you will lose her. If she cheats on you, she wasn't the one for you in the first place.
2006-06-27 23:54:58 · answer #8 · answered by Spillski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sam J, when all is said and done she is with you. You cannot stop human nature. Treat her well, show her your true love, this shouldn't be hard for you if you love her as you do. But no one is a prisoner. Treat her as a Princess.
2006-06-27 23:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by d1ckdeckard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer #1 is great, take the advice. The green eye can kill a relationship quick.
2006-06-27 23:52:58 · answer #10 · answered by kriend 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋