i really like this guy nd we've become good friends. people r sayin dat he likes me 2. but he doesnt act like ho does! :( what should i do?
2006-06-27 23:27:54 · 19 answers · asked by xanniexrobzx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its like when you are at school, they say that when someone hits you (a boy) it means they actually really like you, isnt it? he prob is just shy, if you wait patiently, dont go charging ahead at him, coz u could scare him off, if he hasnt let out about his feelings yet, he aint ready, he is just shy, give it time, but if it takes too long, go on tell him, that you really like, mayb that will break the ice, make him feel more relaxed and tell you that he like s you too, good luck girl!
2006-06-27 23:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by glittershelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, usually if it's a friend then I wouldn't make a move because I wouldn't want to ruin the friendship if she didn't feel the same.
I think that you should not just come out and say what you feel. But I do think that you should every now and again make a flirtatious comment. Then eventually when you've made comments that have been answered positively by him,do the movie kiss. (On the cheek but as you part your eyes meet and then slowly let your lips meet.)
it should take off from there...
2006-06-28 06:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by sink man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly be careful. I was recently in a similar situation, with a guy that clearly liked me, but kept his distance a bit. We slept together after he told me how much he liked me, and I'd been very clear about how I felt for him. But we are not living happily ever after I'm afraid. You see he wasn't lying to get me into bed so much, it was that he had other reasons why it wouldn't work out. That the way it goes sometimes!
If you are good mates then just see how it goes, because even if it doesn't work out romantically you'll always still have a friend.
2006-06-28 06:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by As You Like It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same position exept its the other way round cos im a lad. i want to tell her but i dont want to lose her as a friend if it all goes wrong. people say we are close and thats true but she dosent seem interested in me in that way.
i hope someone gives you a good answer cos im waitin too! ! !
2006-06-28 06:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by RHINOFAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now im a guy and we usally wait untill were really good friends try to make u laugh then get a friend to pop the question if he dosnt do this ask him yourself
2006-06-28 06:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by Liam S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always ask him...it's worth a shot if you like him too.Otherwise, just be around him and if anything is going to happen it will with a few drinks in you!
2006-06-28 06:30:04 · answer #6 · answered by Jenna_OZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dedicate the song "Something to Talk About" by Bonnie Raitt, or burn it on to a cd & give it to him. He'll get the idea.
2006-06-28 06:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by heatherbee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like you like him, but only if you do
2006-06-28 09:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by Jeff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him,he could just be shy.
2006-07-05 04:16:47 · answer #9 · answered by Bob Mukonka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't act so keen if he really likes u he will chase u!
2006-06-28 06:36:39 · answer #10 · answered by blondebirdcrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋