I told this guy i like that i like him loads... he said the same and kissed me, and he sid that he has wanted to tell me for ages... now he still kisses me when we are together... he asked me if i loved him so i said yes... he said.. that so cute.... but its tuff luck.. i never split with my girlfriend.... :'(
2006-06-27 23:20:58 · 39 answers · asked by Paige E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and im in love with him....
2006-06-27 23:27:06 · update #1
some guys are d i c k s
2006-06-27 23:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well did you know that he had a girlfriend? If so you should not have expected him to split with her. On the other hand if you didn't he's just a jerk. Don't feel bad for telling him that you love him. You shared something that was special to you. If he can't appreciate it he's probably not worth it anyway.
In short, it is better that you told him and at least was able to see the other side of him early, than keeping him as some great person in your mind and realizing later that he really wasn't worth your time. Move on, greater things await you.
2006-06-28 04:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by EIliot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im afraid you've had to learn the hard way that there are some evil people out there that use other people just to get what they want and then discard them.
There are women and men like this and with time (im assuming your young) you will recognise the right and wrong people to be intimate with, take it in good measure and remember who did you wrong. So if he does split with his girl in the future, you can do the same back to him.
Remember so as to others as you would like to be done to yourself.! Karma!
2006-06-27 23:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's really nasty.
Try and find his girlfriend and tell her what her b/f is like/upto. That should wipe the smug grin off his face.
And don't feel too bad about it. One persons sadness is certainly no reflection on you (although it may feel like it at the time). Just pick yourself up girl and try again. Hopefully you wont come across such a jerk again.
Good luck
2006-06-27 23:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by mrhaff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a waste of time crying over someone who's not even worth it. You my dear have something to be glad about and that is he's not your boyfriend. Imagine the heartache you would have been suffering if you were boyfriend and girlfriend. Move on and don't think about it. What a concieted guy, I wish I knew him so I can tell him off.
2006-06-28 00:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a contemptable, mean spirited and thoroughly nasty thing to say to somebody. This guy doesn't deserve your affection. It sounds trite I know but time IS a great healer. For your own self respect, walk away.
You're better off without.
2006-07-04 10:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by Stygian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably just wants to get some from you but isn't really comfortable being with you because of what his friends think. In a nut shell, you are good enough for him when nobody is around but just another chick when everyone is looking. Tell this dude to lick your ****!
2006-06-27 23:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by Lawrence J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using the fact that you like him to boost his ego. Move on and find a single guy worth dating hun. This guy isn't worth wasting your tears on. Good luck xx
2006-06-27 23:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because his ego has greatly outgrown his body. He needs to feed his ego in order to feel self worth and that's a sad man. He's definately not confident in himself at all and used you as a reassurance to his own manhood. You should not be used as a toy, unless for lovemaking of course. lol!
2006-06-27 23:34:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a real jerk, sorry. He unfortunately is somebody that will only attract bad circumstances to himself if he keeps up these nasty games. I feel sorry for you that you had to go through that experience. Learn from this and know that you definately deserve better. Keep your chin up girl.
2006-06-27 23:25:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not worth your tears..you should call his gf and the both of you should leave him as he obviously a player who doesnt care about other peoples feelings, calling the one girl his gf and kissing the other girl (and maybe lots of other girls as well). Stop seeing him and I mean NOW, he is bad news!
2006-06-27 23:24:42 · answer #11 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋