do you have a limit like...if a man slept with 35 women..im not dating him...or if a woman slept with 35 men...i wont date her....would you feel different if she/he was in a committed relationship? like say..he/she had 35 g/fs/35 bfs and had sex with each of them...like it wasnt just a one nite thing...are the numbers important to you or you dont care about the past? thanks
2006-06-27 23:07:26 · 16 answers · asked by Feodora 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
too many diseases out there NOT TO CARE.
when someone has many partners, you are sleeping with everyone they slept with, etc...
that can add up to ALOT OF PEOPLE!!!
2006-06-27 23:10:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old they are, like how many they went thru in a certain period. You'd expect someone 35 to have more than someone 17, but still...the more they have and haven't found "the one" the more it means that it's something wrong with THEM, and not the people they're with. It means they're looking for sex and not partners, not lovers. No respect, no commitment, no caring.
And, hey, some nights that's just the thing you want, but mostly, no. Diseases, responsibility, stability, self-esteem, maturity- these are all things to think about. A lover for a night can be a problem for a lifetime
2006-06-27 23:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this day and age of deadly diseases it's not the number that's as important as a person's personal ethics. The number is not important if protection was always used and all the relationships were of a longer term nature...something committed. If the person just slept around having multiple partners, one night stands and had some pretty loose sexual habits...it would most definitely matter to me. I don't play russian roulette with my life.
2006-06-27 23:13:06 · answer #3 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mitr says... you kill 5 persons... or you kill 35 persons... its all the same... isn't it...????
well.... i have no problem if she slept with all the guys... just because she loved them... and i mean LOVE, not infactuation....
see one two guys is understandable... people do fall in love once or twice... and have a break up... people do accept... even myself....
but having 35 guys is something like she has been working in a sex video for years.... if she has slept with so many guys, that means she is some kind of a sex maniac....
answer me... do you really think she will ever love me.???? and she wont be comparing like "hey dude.... you pee pee is smaller than my 25th guy...."....
even though she is committed to me then, but what is the guarantee that she will not sleep with any other guy...... it is actually pretty normal for her.,,,, isn't it...???? she will think.... "okay this guy has accepted me with 35 guys... whats the issue if i sleep with 36th guy also????"
come on... this is practically impossible.....
well exceptions to my theory may be there.....
2006-06-27 23:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by mitr_hamesha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-15 08:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now days, with diseases and what not, I would say yes. But some people are smart about how they handle their sexual encounters and are just sexual beings. But I would have to be very careful with someone with that many lovers.
2006-06-27 23:11:07 · answer #6 · answered by briansprowles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People with too many sex partners will never settle down.
2006-06-27 23:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by kayef57 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to me... i really dont want my boyfriend or my one night stand to have had sex with 100 girls! either theres something wrong with him or something very good about him...i dont know y anyone would have a 35 + sex partners most people dont got room to talk about it though... especially me... i think its guys can sleep with everyone but girls cant sleep with anyone or there sluts ( or so everyone says )....just my opinion
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2006-06-27 23:13:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally to me if someone has so many sex partners they dont care much about themself. I find it to be a turn off.
2006-06-27 23:14:37 · answer #9 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every one has history! The best way is to burry the past and start afresh. Even criminals do reform.
2006-06-27 23:13:13 · answer #10 · answered by nsakamaneneulelya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋