Gentlemen. When you tell a girl when you first go out with her?

Question

that you don't want a serious relationship are you

a) Generalising
b) Testing her reaction
c) Lying (to save face, or not scare her off)
d) Not kidding (nohow lady)

just curious

Eek, I'm a girl!
Listen, I've got my best friend with me, who's head over heels with a guy who fed her that line.
Please help me to put her straight

okay, a little more info.
They're three months down the line and she's given him everything she can. he's her ideal man and she's hearing wedding bells 24/7. He is a nice man. He treats her well and considerately but doesn't quite share her entusiasm and is starting to recoil from her full-on-ness. I'm worried that she's about to crash spectacularly

Answer 1

I think it can be all four.

We never look for a serious relationship with someone who asks this on a first date. It means the girl is self centered, and doesn't know what she wants. The first date is meant to get know someone better, if they're interesting. after you know someone you decide if you want a serious relationship with them. This isn't like and advance payment deal.

We don't like girls who just want to get married, and I think going out with someone just to make this happen is wrong.

The right kind of girl should know that nobody is looking for a serious relationship on the first date, and will avoid asking this in the first place. If she is good and everything fits, it will get there anyway, no need to talk about it.

I think women make too much of what men say, instead of looking at what they do.

Answer 2

when you want to ask a girl out, no simple pickup line is going to work. what you want to do is test the waters but keep progressing. Break the touch barrier first, that makes for a much less awkward transition between being some guy and being her boyfriend when shes already comfortable with you. try not to lie. it is bad for the relationship, and if she finds out you are lying its worse than telling the truth and her not liking it. and when you want to ask her out, dont say some dumb **** like "will you be my girlfreind" be informal. tell her how much you like her. and that you want to be with her. if she has any feelings for you at all this will work if she has no feelings for you then nothing is going to.

Answer 3

B) but don't worry about it, its been 3 months now how is going? does he call u or do u do all the running try not being so keen and if he really like u he will come to u! but one thing i am sure of don't mention marriage or he will run a mile. don't take things so seriously just take every day as it comes and if its meant to b it will!

good luck!

Answer 4

Hello Lady,What he really means is...Honey i want to have sex with you..BUT i want to have sex with other Ladies too.And you need to be there for me when i need sex.If i can't find it somewhere else...

I have never,Or would ever say that to a Lady.As when your in a one night stand encounter.You just enjoy eachothers company and part.But each with a smile on their face.

Answer 5

Generally it's the truth. I cant think of a reason why someone would lie about it

Answer 6

Refreshingly honest,mind ya never know you could end up falling hook line & sink

Answer 7

he just wants to cover all his bases,
if he likes what you have to offer, he will want to stick around, but if he is trying to notch up scores just be sure you get what you need too then say goodbye.

just be elusive & keep him wanting more.

Answer 8

I dont tell her such things on the first date

Answer 9

You are a play boy! Full stop.

Answer 10

He just wants to sleep with ur friend....and you also if your up for it.