through a friend, my girl f living far away sends me a gift but I have a new girl f who is near me for 2 weeks. I want to bring the new gf with me to take that gift, should I? I wanna do it cause:
- via that friend, I want to inform the ex-gf that I have a new gf.
- I wanna show the new gf that I am proud to have some other girls who like me.
Pls give me idea, should I do it ???
2006-06-27 22:55:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You've gotta be strong & honest, let the other Old girlfriend go.
Let her down gently but kindly, huh?
No you're not necessarily bad more like stupid!
How did you get yourself into this mess, avoid it next time.
2006-06-27 22:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a bad guy? Hm.... now let's see..... Your girl friend who is far away is still hopeful about your relationship and you have NOT broken up and then you have a new girl friend. Now it's very very easy for you to inform your "ex" that you have a new girl friend and you're not man enough to AT LEAST go ahead and tell your self and you want to inform her through your friend. AND you want to ACCEPT the gift she has sent you and the poor girl trusts you so much and thinks of you as such a loyal person who is still committed to your relationship that she sends you a gift.
Well, good for you. And you don't feel the smallest bit guilty. I totally agree with melancholia.
Poor girls who have to put up with men like you........
Are you a bad guy? I don't know you to be the judge of that but I can tell you this: good guys don't do these sort of stuff.
2006-06-28 06:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by Katy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need advice on this ur a bit of a fool. You can be a nice guy and just tell your ex.
Of course your ex is far away and you could just tell her nothing, tell your new girlfriend that you have told your ex, and if you break up with 1 you still have the other. If you want to be a bad guy that would be my suggestion.
2006-06-28 06:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by Cowboybebop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you get my award for a prize lily-livered coward.. Why can't you be a man and tell the old girlfriend you are done w/her? You don't need to hurt some poor girl (who sent you a gift? what kind of a jerk are you here?!) by dragging along a new girlfriend so she can "see you've got somebody else" (using a friend to tell her?) damn, you disgust me! (I think the new girlfriend sounds kinda stupid too by the way.. she goes along with treating somebody like that?! You'll dog her too.. go ahead. She and you deserve each other, man..) lol arf
2006-06-28 05:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your current GF expressly that u got a present from an ex. Make sure u dont sound like u still want her, in fact make it sound like the ex still wants u and u're not interested.
Tell your ex directly that u have another GF (unless of-course u're hoping to date her again). Otherwise just tell her kuti
2006-06-28 06:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by tha dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO....you need to come correct with the old gf. you OWE her that much..you know..a SHRED of common decency...let her cry over it and get you out of her life.,..you are a bad person...you have messed up priorities and you exclude people from your life at will...and it is inconsiderate...if you thought of someone else before yourself...you'd still be interested in the first gf and not looking for others...
2006-06-28 06:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So in other words, u want to rub your "new" girlfriend in ur ex's face? Just to show her other girls like you too? What are you, ten years old or something? It's surprising that even these two girls like you.
2006-06-28 06:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by mrsajackson79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to be a bad guy, if you do not express anything directly to that g/f. Why do you want to use somebody to express your self. Are you so coward? If you are a man, go straight to her and tell everything, face to face. Why this beating around the bush?
2006-06-28 06:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah, your an AAAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSSSSSS! Remember, what goes around comes around and you get what you deserve. Sounds like your a bit egotistical and self centered too.
2006-06-28 06:04:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Again, Yes you are a bad guy.
2006-06-28 06:07:48 · answer #10 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋