Me and my boyfriend colided two weeks ago and we decided to take a break from each other for a while.......Is it a good thing or should I expect the worst after the break....what should I do?
2006-06-27 22:20:03 · 7 answers · asked by Leshambiye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you really believe absence makes the heart grows fonder? The longer both of you are apart, the more likely the relationship is going to fizzle out. And anything may happen during this period, he may just end up meeting someone new while alone...
2006-06-27 22:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anythingoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...well, SOMETIMES, it's a bad thing - it depends on who initiated it. If he did, then yes, expect the worst, because normally that's a guy's way of saying "I don't wanna be with you anymore, maybe just as friends"
If you did it though - then, maybe it's not such a bad thing. Don't go back in thinkin the worst, or this same thing will happen again, and maybe in a more drastic way. I do hope things work out either way for ya...and if ya need to get into more detail, feel free to contact me via email. I do have a Girlfriend, and we've had our up's and down's, but, nothing major. So, i have an ear if ya wanna spill it =)
2006-06-28 05:25:09 · answer #2 · answered by XxDJToxic420xX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as a part of the male species i would say expect the worst but if the guy is one dearest around then give it time cause if he really likes you he will come back to his senses!and remember short break up should never be done as they can turn out nasty!
2006-06-28 05:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by Life101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Mysterious Thing Called LOVE ...
If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be
gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't
choose to rest in the other person's heart.
If you find someone else in love with you and you don't love him/her,
feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse
the gift you cannot return, do not take advantage, do not cause pain.
How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts
feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.
If you fall in love with another, and he/she falls in love with you,
and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess
blame, let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will
know in time .
Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All you can
really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life.
Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it
away.
Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it to
others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in
anyway you can. There is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long
without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts
as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at
love as something that flows to them rather than from them.
The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their
love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need. They cease to be
someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love.
They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it
can be made to grow only by giving it away.
Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its
own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe
it or coerce it, or reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when
it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to
leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing
you can do and there is nothing you should do.
Love always has been and always will be a mystery. Be glad that it
came to live for a moment in your life.
2006-06-28 07:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by right 4 u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is nothing wrong with taking a break, from your relationship for while, this will give you both a chance to think
about things !
2006-06-28 08:15:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its wrong of course! You have to solve the problems in the beginning!
2006-06-28 07:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by nan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure , specially if u r a coward
2006-06-28 05:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by newtouch8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋