how can i ask him out?help me plz?

Question

hey iam 13 and i like this guy name jordan he go's to my chucrch and i wanna ask him out but i get to scared and freak out .how do i ask him out?

Answer 1

well you can ask him out the way my ex asked me out :) its really cute and i think he'll say yes because he'll think your adorable by asking this way (btw im 13 too)::

do u know him well? if not then you really should get to know him better before asking him out.. he might not be all that you hoped for

if you do know him well find out some way to get his phone number and regularly call him but not to the point of stalkerness haha

if you already do this then follow:

have a conversation on the phone (have a friend 3 way if your nervous but make sure its a friend that he likes too or else he'll be too nervous to do much) and flirt a lot with him. say hes funny and always laugh and casually mention going out but only joking or as friends like "wow that new movie came out we should go see it". if he doesn't get the clue or just laughs and says sure like your just going as friends do this:

"hehe im sending something to u psychicly do u hear me?? :)"
continue this little joke and say "i'm asking you a yes or no question :) please say yes"

continue til he says yes but dont push it. if he gets bored of this continue it another time (love takes patience)

if he says yes then say "YES? really? so you'll go out with me?" but say it innocently =] not like "REALLY? OMFG I HAVE TO TELL EVERYONE IN THE WHOLE WORLD" :)

well i hope this helped!

<3 joyce

Answer 2

13 is too damn young to date. Boys are a distraction! Just hang out!
Priorities:
God
Family
School
friends
Sports
Learn to love yourself first, he'll come to you if he is interested. Otherwise wait for the next guy. Believe me honey there will be 100's - 1000's more guys out there. ALSO BE CAREFULL ONLINE. Never meet anyone until your old enough-->>21

Answer 3

At 13, are you sure you wanna do it? Okay, alright, I think its's pretty cool provided you've discussed this with you mom. And sweetie, instead of pondering how you should ask him out, get to know him better, and wait for him to ask you out!

Answer 4

ok first at 13 your not really dating your going somewhere besides home with a guy you know,
2nd just ask him out, say hey, do want to go to _______
with me, keep it real casual and he'll say yes before he even realizes he's been asked out. Keep it cool
Good Luck and God Bless

Answer 5

If you are too scared to ask him in person, could you call him or write him a note? Maybe you could ask him out to a group activity first and see how that goes?

Good luck! :)

Answer 6

I understand how you fell its not as easy as it seems, but you just have to be courageous enough to talk to him.Take him to a quiet place where you will not be distracted sit him down,and let out your feelings for him.Believe me if he is a matured person he will respect you for that, but tell him first that saying this has not been easy for you.And please don't waist any more time on this OK?

Answer 7

Come out of your nervousness fast.
Mind! you are a minor in the eyes of law and people.
You cannot do such things now.
Better wait for some more years.
This is only body language and not logic.

Answer 8

find something fun to do, like a baseball game. and then walk up to him and say "hey, do you wanna go to the game with me?" it's that simple

Answer 9

let me tell u im 14 and i know you need NO TACT WHATSOEVER to ask a guy out.
HE WILL SAY YES. dont worry seriously.

Answer 10

i think that you are to young to be asking someone out.your mind should be on other thing right now.