she is 18 this weekend, do you think all the family should just let her get on with it , or "police the party" , she is very responsible , but also my sister and myself dont want to seem to be fuddie duddies.
2006-06-27 21:59:07 · 13 answers · asked by Nice but Dim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Get your glad rags on and party on down with the young folk, just one word of warning though, dont start putting all your old Wham cd's on !!!!!!!!!
Have a ball
2006-06-27 23:23:04 · answer #1 · answered by Taffy Comp Geek 6 · 10⤊ 1⤋
I guess you should let her have the party, but maybe give her a few guidelines like call you if anything goes wrong or have someone she can trust to "oversee" the incoming guests(or just be the bouncer). she may be a resposible person, but she cannot control everything that happens around her. Make sure she knows the police's phone number, or at least ask her to have a phone handy or within reach at al ltime in case of an emergency.
2006-06-28 05:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by mac_guy_ver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes 18 let the girl have a good party without being spied upon.
2006-06-28 05:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by flymetothemoon279 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them get on with it. Just explain any damages are down to her to pay for. However as it's an eighteenth why are you not having a family and friends party?
2006-06-28 05:03:13 · answer #4 · answered by iloveliz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her get on with it. Whatever is going to happen will happen anyway just with your ok it will happen in a safe environment. Go out for the evening and let her have fun.
2006-06-28 05:05:16 · answer #5 · answered by break 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still think she is not of age.So maybe she can have here mom and dad can be At a freinds house down the block or something.
2006-06-28 05:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would let her get on with it. but make it clear to her that you expect reasonable behaviour and that this "un-policed" party is like a trial and if she/her friends mess it up it will go back to being supervised.
2006-06-28 05:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by i don't have a nickname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her party with her friends.
2006-06-28 05:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by Tarik D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, she's 18, let her have an unchaperoned party. You say she's responsible, let her have fun.
2006-06-28 05:04:49 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id be upstairs, that way she can come get you if it starts to get out of hand or she needs your help but your not in her way, cramping her style!
2006-06-28 05:04:08 · answer #10 · answered by angel louie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋