2006-06-27 21:33:48 · 20 answers · asked by dandosth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion a good woman will be attracted to you AS YOU are!! It's not the clothes, the money, the job, it's just YOU!! If they are not attracted to you for who you are, then believe me, you don't want them. Be yourself and see what happens...
By the way...this is the same for woman looking for a man. Be yourself.
2006-06-27 21:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by und1974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing by this you mean that women aren't attracted to you now. This could be for a number of reasons.
The foremost could be that you have little to no self-confidence. If that's the case, then it is most certainly what you need to work on before you can ever even think of getting into a relationship. If you think poorly of yourself, then that will effect the relationship between you and future partners and the relationships will be short and very rocky.
If it's because you are not physically attractive (by your own standards) then you need to change your outward appearance so that you find yourself attractive. If you spend years of your life simply hating the way you look, then that is not a very good vibe to give off.
Speaking of vibes... Your attitude could be affecting this. Are you open and a generally content person, or are you very closed off and unwelcoming toward people? In order for a person to be attracted to you, you need to make it so that they aren't afraid to be bitten while trying...
Sorry that I can't give you more definite answers, but you didn't give much to work with.
2006-06-27 21:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by tainted_crimson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BATHE REGULARLY, i am serious, take care of yourself and look like it,
decide what kind of women you are interested in and why
Do you know what you want in a woman? IS this just physical or would you want an intelligent woman? IF you want a female from the nightclub scene, then be there, dress the part etc, if you want a woman interested i the things you are,, be specific when you talk to them.. Is your personality chipper, dry boring, do you have a good vocabulary? DO NOT COME ON TOO STRONG TOO FAST, DON'T TALK ABOUT PAST GIRLS, AND YOUR LET DOWNS, ETC, DONT DUMP ON THEM OR BE NEGATIVE, IF YOU GET THE ATTENTION OF THE WOMAN , DON'T KEEP TALKING ABOUT YOURSELF, ASK HER QUESTIONS ABOUT HER, HER THOUGHTS, IDEAS, AND LISTEN LISTEN LISTEN, DO NOT INTERUPT WHEN YOU ARE IN CONVERSATIONS WITH HER, AND IF YOU DO SAY EXCUSE ME,AND LET HER FINISH, DON'T BE TOO EAGER, if you meet someone and go out, call and thank for the time, but dont overdo it, dont call ten times a day, don't whine, don't be needy,,
do, be honest, and cheerful, and take no, with a smile and say thank you anyway,, be on time, for a date, look and smell good, do not act like you are madly in love right away, do not rush or push, or be too available and too eager, do not drop what you are doing if she wants you at the last minute,
LET HER KNOW, THAT YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO HER BECAUSE,,?/ but dont say you are lonely, looking for special girl ,,let it happpen slowly,,
and most importand, if they are not your type, don't settle for just anyone be selective, and show that you are selective.. always respect her, even if yu decide you do not like her, be respectful if she is in your company.
well, that should keep you busy,, remember ask her questions about herself that shows you are generally interested, this will let her know, you have choices, and are looking for special qualities in a woman also, never put yourself down, or her, have a sense of humor be fun, relax, and have a comfortable time, ok that is a start,,, so good luck,,,
2006-06-27 21:54:53 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant help you with your personality, but I could help you with your external appearence. It could help to get a cool wardrobe. It wouldnt hurt if you were easy on the eyes, if you know what I mean...lets face it, women go for whatever looks good.
2006-06-27 21:43:34 · answer #4 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one, you have to learn that the plural form of woman is women and NOT womens. lol
2006-06-27 21:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by Bu Ang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live your life as you like.most women like this thing only
2006-06-27 21:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be more stylish. and let the woman know that you care for her a lot. just make that woman know that you love her lot......and you are done...just try your best and leave the rest.
2006-06-27 21:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pour honey all over yourself and they will swarm around you like bees.
2006-06-27 21:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by TOO HOT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hypnotism usually works well for me
2006-06-27 21:35:46 · answer #9 · answered by free pizza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn the rite language buddy......
Women is plural and not Womens
2006-06-27 21:38:37 · answer #10 · answered by magic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋