I have this female friend, I went out with her as friends, several times, until a couple days ago, she told me that she liked me, and then we had sex, very passionate sex.
After the sex, and her words, I just fell in love w her. I really love her. I am just so astonished at the way she caught me. I never intended for this to happen, but she made her move, and, I could say she conquered me. I feel happy, as she does, but I can not understand how she did it.
Help me understand, any opinions are appreciated. I always thought of myself as the tough guy that only got the girls he wanted, but this time around I got hunted.
I feel humble, and, I got caught.
2006-06-27 21:32:59 · 4 answers · asked by viking 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks. I am not questioning myself in a negative way, I just want to discover the ways in which a woman can reach my soul, and, conquer me. I feel honored by her move, and, I am humble and I accept her initiative with great joy.
2006-06-27 21:42:31 · update #1
Does it really matter?
If you're happy, don't question it. Just be grateful.
After all in today's society it's ok for the woman to take the initiative, so don't worry about it. It does not make you any less of a man, in fact rather the opposite!
2006-06-27 21:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by hyacinth4peace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you say you love her then don't think about anything else. by thinking like this you will divert you mind from her. just enjoy this new feeling of being in love and cherish the moments that you both spend together. There are no question marks in love. Let the relationship take its own course. All the Best. God Bless.
2006-06-27 21:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by sudjenni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can tell her, though if it took sex for you to think so I'd worry that you're just in lust with her.
My favorite relationships were ones that I didn't expect to get into that I said NEVER would happen. On guy pulled me a side sat me on his lap and said "tell me you love me" I'll never forget it. But I won't admit it until he confronted me. He made me love him. And I really did, but I never planned it and never "wanted" to. It just happened, of course nothing would have happened if I didn't like him first and was friends with him for a long time first.
PS there was NO sex involved.
2006-06-27 21:36:46 · answer #3 · answered by double v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can say that.I think you left her to conquer you because you liked her and now you are in love.
2006-06-27 21:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋