just because we are x-convicts and at one time or another made a mistake does'nt mean were still trouble. some of us actualy learn a leason.
2006-06-27 21:22:31 · 11 answers · asked by spiderman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People in general are judgemental assholes.Don't let them bring ya' down dude.I know it's easier said than done,but it can be done.
2006-06-27 21:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by Troy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is simple really - people are afraid. One hears of women hooking up with an ex con - and some of those women are hurt, maimed, or killed. It is because of those few ex cons who cause problems which hurt those other ex cons who have learned a lesson and are on the straight and narrow.
The best thing to do is to let the woman have as much time as possible to get to know you. Take things very very slowly.
Do make certain that you are established with a job and a place to live - and show her that you are indeed back in society.
The more time you give her and the more patience you have with her should only help to get her on your side.
Good Luck and God bless.
2006-06-28 04:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because Big bubba your ex is still in jail humping other men!
Just kidding-Don't give up brother just keep looking & be patient. Some girls aren't second chance people. You have to work twice as hard to prove you are a good person now. The biggest thing is convincing yourself. The way you carry yourself speaks volumes to women. You may meet 100 good women who don't like you for prison etc. 99 may say no but if one says yes you are a winner.
2006-06-28 04:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by Dudleybz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me introduce you to a friend of mine. His name is big bubba. He was in prison five time for sodomizing and brutally punches the poor guys teeth out before shove his dick down the guy's throat. He's looking for a roommate, he would like to know if you want to be his roommate?
Now do you really think you would feel comfort around him? That is how people feel around ex convicts.
2006-06-28 04:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are just narrow minded.
Personally I believe you judge someone after getting to know them and not because of the mistakes the have made in life.
Because if you did judge someone on the mistakes they have made in life no one would have friends!
2006-06-28 06:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by ambidextrous25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"society" sees this as bad. But some of us aren't all into what the rest of "society" deems as immoral or wrong. Good Luck and don't quit searching. Someone is out there for you....
2006-06-28 04:26:38 · answer #6 · answered by teambargain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it is because so many have not it ruins it for the rest of you. I am sorry that that is the case. It also depends on what you did some would be scared.
2006-06-28 04:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by blue_dragoness5695 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, U WAS IN PRIZON AND HAVE A RECORD, THATS SHOULD SAY ALL......I KNOW A GUY WHO KILLED 3 GUYS AND DID TIME, BUT HE DONE A 180* TURN IN HIS LIFE AND NOW HE IS A PREACHER...
2006-06-28 04:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by BUD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person obviously lacks in inter-personal skills with the other sex
2006-06-28 04:24:50 · answer #9 · answered by anne2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because most people have their head up their a*% and worry to much about what other people think---trust me I know
2006-06-28 04:26:22 · answer #10 · answered by karlyk721 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋