I don't know, i've been insecure about one issue..
I have a birthmark right near my chest, but its not any bad one.
Its tan.
I havn't had sex or anything, im just insecure even when i get married and make love.
I'm attractive, and have a good body-from what ppl say..
but is this an issue? Will this make a guy grossed out, or wont care about it?
Its what god made me..
2006-06-27 20:59:26 · 13 answers · asked by beautywithin12 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
WHen the time comes and the person is right, it won't be an issue.
2006-06-27 21:03:20 · answer #1 · answered by xtowgrunt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about such shallow and meaningless things. I know that other people your age tell you that how someone looks is the most important thing. It isn't. Work on who you are on the inside. Falling into the cult of Fashion distracts from being a nice, kind person. You could live to be 80, right? That means that you will spend 50 years being over 30, right? You'll live for 40 years after you are 40 years old. Beauty is something that goes away. You should not build your self-esteem on what you look like.
2006-06-27 21:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fear of a tan or birthmark right near your chest is not a serious situation and on that point you needn't bother. You having an attractive and well-proportioned body, how this could be an issue? Never mind, don't bother for anything on this count.
2006-06-27 21:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over time, your boobs and butt will begin to sag, your hair will turn grey, your face will get a few wrinkles...
If a guy is grossed out by a tan birthmark, find another guy. I know dozens of guys who wouldn't care about a birthmark if the rest of you was hot, and you are a good person.
2006-06-27 21:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by Jen H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.This is not a issue and this will not make a guy grossed out.
This is how you are made and what you are,you should not be bothered by or feel insecure.Let fate lead the way,one day you will find your right guy,he who grossed out will not be a guy who is worth your love.A guy who is worth your love will be somebody who will not be bothered by all this,somemore its only a birthmark,its something which you cant erase it away,its something to identify you.So juz buck up ur confidence.No worries...
2006-06-27 21:13:41 · answer #5 · answered by messi_24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care about what other people will think about you. We are not put on this earth to please other people, only ourselves. If no one likes you for who you are or what you look like, then that is their problem, not yours and they are the ones who need to deal with it. It is only an issue cause you are making it one, and if people say you are attractive and have a good body, then why are you asking this question?
2006-06-27 21:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by Prince W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the right person comes around it won't matter. They'll love the person you are in the inside. Just think of it as a beauty mark. It makes you unique!
2006-06-27 21:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by hmsx student 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is and you'll be surprised at what you won't be embarrassed of when you meet your husband. i was like this and when I met my husband I felt really at ease with him, and could talk about anything. that's how I knew he was the one for me.And he won't care about a birthmark
2006-06-27 21:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do sometimes but my Husband reminder me that He marrried me for me even the way I looked after I had our son. Your future mate will love you no matter what. Be encourage.
2006-06-27 21:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by Pashur 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a man loves you he will not be bothered by a simple birthmark, in fact he should love that as well becasue it is a part of you, osmeone he loves
2006-06-27 21:03:05 · answer #10 · answered by Mike is me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋