How 2 make my mother happy?

Question

My mom grew up in poverty.When young,she worked hard 2 earn money so that her brothers and sisters can get proper education.When she married, it was not exactly a happy marriage but she held on for the sake of me & my brother. My father died 10 years back & she had to work again after a gap of 25 years.I became an engineer and my brother a doctor because of her hard work. i had a love marriage 3 years ago,not exactly against her wishes but she was not exactly happy with it either.Now, after a big fight, my wife has walked out of my home.We r thinking of seperating. my mom, in her old age, has to witness all this. She is upset all day. I WANT 2 MAKE HER HAPPY, BRING SOME CHEER IN HER LIFE. HOW DO I DO THAT. PLEASE ADVICE, PLEASE HELP ME

Answer 1

Tell her you love her. And that everything happens for a reason...

Answer 2

Your mother has surely gone through a lot of stress. If she is still working you should get her retire.
She has done a lot for you and your brother.

Let her spend time with you. Be with her.
Be there for her.

You will have to talk to her being upset. Find out why.
May be she is upset cos you are going through a divorce. And she kept it.

Touch her feelings and she will feel better.
Take a holiday for a week or a month and take her on pilgrimage.
She needs rest now..

Smile.

Answer 3

If you are wanting to make your mom happy above anyone else around you and including you, go to your mom directly, and ask her what she would like. Ask her opinion on the situation, and what she would advise you to do.

At the same time I would advise you to do what you are happy with too, not only to please those around you, as we can not always and only please others. I am sure your Mom is wanting you to be happy though, and so I am sure she will give you the best advice.

Answer 4

Pen her a really beautiful letter [tell her some of what you said above!] and tell her how much she means to you! Find out from her, by asking, what would make her happy; and then work at giving it to her!
Very best wishes to you with this!

Answer 5

What you need is a opportunity that will make you make your mom happy. So, what you can do is make the opportunity. Then, try to capitalize on that opportunity and make a profit. Of course, do not forget to perform quality control.

Answer 6

first of all, your marrage problems are no concern to your mother, tell her just what she needs to know, the basics. Second you need to talk to her. no one out here on the internet is going to be able to help you because we dont know what your mother wnats only she does. so sit down and have a chat with her. and good luck with u and your wife

Answer 7

u must be sincere to u mother and take her into confidence before taking/implementing any major decision,irrespective of ur brother's opinion,seek her blessings only ,don't worry she is very bold lady and have the capacity to direct u in the right way

Answer 8

You obviously want her to know how you feel, and want to support her.
Try to comfort your mum as much as you can (Think of all the suffering she died for you two boys)!!!
This is your opportunity to show her how much you appreciated the hardship she has endured for you!!!
Your brother is a doctor, his time is full, so it is up to you...

Answer 9

She never needs your money only. Give her your love, affection. Treat her very politely and kindly which she treated you while you were in childhood.

Answer 10

Your happiness is obviously very important to your mother. Make sure she realizes that her happiness is very important to you, because you love her dearly.

Answer 11

Convince your wife by telling all the problems. whats problems she suffered. takeback your wife to your home. tell your wife to be comm( to be silence). may be your mother feel happy. be happy.