if somebody tease me mentally i affected so how can i digest these problems?

Answer 1

No one likes to be teased...so if you act like it does not bother you and you laugh along with them ....they will see you are strong and will probably stop this bad behavior.....if you go to pieces and show your feelings..that is what they love....so trick them and keep smiling....even if it hurts..YOU CAN DO IT!

Answer 2

Your question reminds me of a very wise book I read, "The Four Agreements" by Don Miguel Ruiz. The Agreements are "Be Impeccable with Your Word, Don't Take Anything Personally, Don't Make Assumptions, and Always Do Your Best."

Sometimes when people say mean things about us we tend to consciously, or more often, unconsciously believe them. It can cause us to value our own self less. Because of this, we have to learn how not to take it personally when someone says bad things to us. Instead we can think to ourself, "that person is wrong, he must be having a bad day, because I know I am not ugly, or stupid, (or whatever it is that the person is trying to make you believe), I know I am smart and nice and a good person. This is called self-affirmations.

Here is a website which can help explain affirmations and how you can use them to become immune to the bad things others tell you about your own self. http://www.coping.org/growth/affirm.htm

Most people tend to tease others because they falsely believe that they can raise themself up by putting other people down.

Here is the link to the book I mentioned: You can order it new for about $8.00 or used for about $4.00.
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1878424319/ref=cm_lm_fullview_prod_12/104-6357441-1671928?%5Fencoding=UTF8&v=glance&n=283155

Answer 3

I can relate to you I get the same feeling when ppl say even the smallest thing about me. It is a self esteem problem. We have to love our self and build our confidence. You need to focus on having the I dont give a **** attitude towards negative images and acusations.

Answer 4

If you have a school counselor of some type or any professional at school, talk to them. If you are out of school, seek counseling. Some of us just have to live with things like this and go on with our lives. Eventually, they get paid for their mistreatment and you will be able to have peace; really.

Answer 5

listen rajkumar, firstl understand that ur not a kid and u shud try to ignore things that mentally affects you.Remember that ur a matured person and behave like a matured person,never take something seriously
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