have a BF or a GF? ....I dont want to be tought of as a slut, but damn, This one guy and I are very much attracted to one another and we often discuss what we want to do to each other sexually,and we both want to see if we can "walk the walk"
2006-06-27 18:57:59 · 43 answers · asked by Mommy Dearest 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As for our ages, we are both well over 18
2006-06-27 19:07:25 · update #1
If you are both adults, and you use contraception go for it.
Make sure you have an clear agreement about your (non)relationship.
No one owes the other anything. Get laid.
Make sure that you know about his sexual health, and he about yours. Seriously. any STDs in or on you or him is reason enough to at the very least put it off.
Do have contact info, in case one or the other of you comes down with something--crabs, pregnancy... ENJOY!
2006-06-27 19:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by roscoedeadbeat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two have to realize that you are only using the word attracted as an excuse. He probably uses the word to stay with you sexually, and you really think there is an attraction---a one sided atrraction. He has the benefits and you have what ever it is you have doing this stuff. Trouble is there is nothing talked about along the lines of what to do if a baby pops out. Having sex on a challenge to walk the walk is a rather silly statement. You need to start looking to the future and where you want to be in a few years. Ask him if he has plans for his future. Do you think you can take it a step further and become a traditional couple? There is never going to be sex everyday when either of you get married and start a family. Reality check-----it's been fun but you need to get on the ball.
2006-06-27 19:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are both playing a game that is , itself more explosive and powerful than the end result.You say that you are attracted to one another, but the real draw to each is the game of " how far can this go. I personally feel there should be more involved when considering a sexual encounter, but to each their own. If you do have the escapade, I am afraid that you will find that the talk and excitement leading up to it was far more pleasurable and memorable, and that the act itself will be very anti-climactic.
2006-06-27 19:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by satchusker1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go have some fun just be sensible about it
nothing wrong with sex
this country has far too many puritanical hang ups
as it is lousy to stigmatise people or sterotype
just for being sexually active have traveled many places
where this was not even an issue and actual abuse
twords women much less because not a bunch of
frustrated men running around
2006-06-27 19:06:59 · answer #4 · answered by oddbs2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think it's wrong at all. sometimes you just need to experience great sex without strings attached!! Me and this one guy were extremely attracted to each other and hooked up a couple of times for some hot events. I would have never considered dating him and the feeling was mutual. it was just a respectable booty call. we were both single then though. It was more of a I need someone,..you need someone,..lets use each other for a good time.
2006-06-27 19:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by merivel7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If there is no one getting hurt as a result of the two of you having a sexual relationship then the next logical step would be to have plenty of condoms, a bottle of wine a few lighted candles and a f***ing good time. The only person you will ever have to answer to is yourself.
2006-06-27 19:10:50 · answer #6 · answered by taichi5721 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, if you are at the right age, meaning matured enough to know the consequences of doing it....I suggest you practice safe sex... On the other hand, if you have doubts and think that it is not right to do as yet...then don't do it...there's always a right time for everything.
2006-06-27 19:06:49 · answer #7 · answered by chona a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you are not in a relationship with this man. It's OK to be intimate with him so long as you watch out for yourself, stay safe. You will be fine if you know him very well. If you have not tried an official relationship, I suggest you do.
2006-06-27 19:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by jayhind2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you feel like doing, just don't try to convince yourselves that it's "because of love!"
It's not. It's physical attraction and you should be honest enough to admit it.
It's not wrong to have sex with someone just because you two are attracted, unless you're not honest and upfront about it.
2006-06-28 07:34:39 · answer #9 · answered by its just me!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its wrong if neither one of you are in a relationship. but i foresee that you might end up being this guys gf. Right or wrong is a very personal question. in terms or religion, im sure it is wrong as both of you are not married. but in terms of logic.. why not....
2006-06-27 19:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by Daemon K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋