why is there so much hate when it is easier to love and be kind?

Question

People seem to judge and show no compassion for others

Answer 1

Its actually easier to hate. You don't have to learn anything. You don't have to admit you are wrong. You don't have to bother respecting other people.

Answer 2

Some might choose hate over love because if you love someone then you trust that person.And if you trust that person and he/she betrays you then you will find it hard to love that person or to trust anyone again.Sometimes that lasts for a while but other times it just blows over.To hate for others might be better cuz if you hate someone then you dont talk 2 that person.You have nothing to do with that person.So they think its better to ignore the person rather than dealing with the problem that made the hatred happen.So i think it is better to love than to hate cuz life is to short to make the wrong choices.

Answer 3

I have to disagree.

I think it is easier to hate than to love and that is why there is so little kindness in the world.

I don't think we are born intrinsically cruel or bad, but we get hurt along the way and our response to that pain is to build our own fences around our hearts.

The thing is, the fence also keeps love from getting in or out too.

Answer 4

If it was easier to love then there would be no war. We have to fight the hardest for the things that are the most important and the best. Humans wrestle against what feels good/quick fix against that which may be harder but actually best.

Answer 5

Who says it's easier to love and be kind? For SOME people it's easier to hate.

Answer 6

people r controlled by money, money makes them think that its all they ever need to be happy, they all forgot about love, how much it can actually make u happy...... at least im not like that, i think, i hope.... i used to, but stopped ever since i read somewhere in the internet this.... would u sell ur happiness for a million dollars?? how about 10 million??? a billion??? if ur not willing to sell to me ur happiness for that much money, then y do we give it away to small stuff that arent even worth that much... that got me thinking about love, u know, and happiness..... and i thought that being happy had a lot to do wit how u act wit other people. if ur kind or good person wit them. like once i was playing wit one of my lil cousins, i never seen her until that day, but then, we were playing catching, we had fun, i was happy, and y??? becuase i was wit my cousin, who kindly showed me love, even thought we never seen before each other in our lifes. and i know she was having fun too, u could just see it in her face, and after a month of that my dad went over there, i couldnt go, but the first thing she asked him about is where i was at? she wanted to play wit me again. she showed me love the other day cuz she invited me to play wit her, and i responded the same way, and now that makes us happy, we were having fun :) so i guess wat im trying to say is, people r happier when they show love and kindness, if not, they r mad and angry, and that only makes them stop being kind and to love...

Answer 7

My dear,
So many people have different emotional responses;
There are people who actually care;
There are people who share information to help others;
There are people who are just ignorant of the need of others;
Love and kindness comes from the heart...

Answer 8

Negative emotions are more prevalent than positive ones.
When you look in the mirror, are you looking for the perfections, or the flaws?
It's simple human nature to go for the bad. Sad but true

Answer 9

obviously it is not easier to love than it is to hate or more people would be doing it

think abt it!

dont you just love the people that cut you off

or the cop that pulls you over for going 5 miles over the speed limit

cause i know i sure do
XD

Answer 10

Hate only requires a target. Love requires getting to know each other. It is much harder to love someone, to be patient, kind, understanding, compassionate, caring and tolerant.