i dono if im pregnet or not i may be 3 weeks pregnet im about to be 14 and 2 of my sisters already know but i dono if i am or not and should i tell my mom even though shes gonna get dissapointed in me and might kick me out the house or if i have and abortion everybody that knows encluding my bf will hate me nomatter wat wat should i do and my sisters dont allow me to talk to him or contact him at all his 16 wat should i do? and if i keep the baby ima ruin my life but if i lose the baby my consence is gonna be killing me so freaken much!so i dont know what to do keep it or lose it!
2006-06-27 18:15:01 · 28 answers · asked by confused 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Sweetie the best thing to do is abort it. You don't need a baby right now. You made a mistake. Don't ruin your life and a baby's life.
Or give it up for adoption. Be a hero.
2006-06-27 18:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you need to talk to your mom. Does your boyfriend know that you think you could be pregnant? If he doesn't, he needs to know. You won't necessarily ruin your life if you keep the baby. All children are blessings whether they were planned or not. I don't believe that any child should be aborted no matter the circumstances. That child is already a living human being that deserves a fair chance at life. If you don't want to raise a baby, there are plenty of people out there who are trying to get pregnant and can't. They would love to have a child. Anyway, I'm just a stranger trying to help someone out, you would probably do better to get advice from your mom. Best of luck in whatever you choose to do.
2006-06-27 20:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by Kaley-girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets all really hope that you are not because honestly you are way way too young and not ready for a child, are you even in high school yet? either way you should 100% not be having sex for years to come, wait until you are older, done school at least. If you are pregnant consider abortion the pros and cons, if you feel okay with yourself to do it, it isn't for everyone but it should be a choice still. If you can't have an abortion for whatever your reasons at least stay in school and look after yourself. Give adoption consideration. The decision is yours to make, though because you are under age it actually lies with your parents to make that decision for you and you may not like what they decide.
Talk to your mom, she may be disapointed but she will get over it I am sure. Take a pregnancy test first to see if you are or not then if you are not you can relax a little and your period will probably come, if you are then you have to talk to someone.
2006-06-27 19:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie if you were smart enough to lay down and get pregnant then you should be responsible enough to keep the baby. Abortion is wrong and that child did not ask to be here. You just have to accept it and move on with your life. A baby will not ruin your life. They are gifts from God. just be brave enough to sit down and tell your mother, she's gonna find out anyway. Mothers know trust me, so you might as well go ahead and tell her. She'll be disappointed at first, but she'll get over it and love her grandchild to death. Good luck. Go ahead and finish school and get you a good job so that you can support your child. Make sure the father is involved as well.
2006-06-27 18:22:23 · answer #4 · answered by tantalizin1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing that you are going through! I'm 23 & my boyfriend is 26 & he already has a 3yr & when i got pregnant we thought about the same thing but once i thought about it I couldn't kill an instance child. I went to my mother after about 2 days of thinking & she told me to give my self a week & she would support my decision no matter what I choice to do but on the other hand my dad was upset that I even thought of that. All I can say is talk to your parents or who you feel best with & make the right decision. I"m 4 months now & really happy!!! Oh yeah on the other hand that's something you & the father need to talk about. Good luck
2006-07-04 11:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by Fun girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a great group called The Nurturing Network. They can help you get out of this very stressful situation without getting kicked out of the house, without an abortion, and without ugly attitudes from your bf or sisters. You also need to stop having sex and see a doctor. Guessing that you're not using any kind of protection, you've also left yourself open to all sorts of STDs that can make your life miserable.
2006-06-27 18:21:18 · answer #6 · answered by yellow_jellybeans_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can make this decision for you. All you can do is get as much information as possible about all your possibilities and research them. Then maybe you can make an educated decision. No matter what you decide you will need some type of support, either family or especially friends. Your parents might surprise you. But your first step is to find out if you are pregnant or not. Please make sure you either stop having sex or take precautions if you continue, you are to young for both sex and children.
2006-06-27 18:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 25 i find it at times nerve-wrecking to raise a baby. Do u think its a joke! Do u've any idea what its to raise a kid!
U've got to first complete ur school/education and prove urself before getting into such hasty decisions! What wud u do to support (in a decent manner) ur baby later on?? The b/f u r scared of getting hated from wud he support the baby's expenses and upbringing?? Think u urself is a kid! So please talk to ur mom or anyone who cud guide u in the right direction and take the best decision so it wudn't ruin the rest of ur life! Act now!
2006-06-27 18:53:51 · answer #8 · answered by pearl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, I am a father of a two year old son, and at the age of 29 also, i find it very very difficult. Please allow urself to loose it. Whatever is done is done and do not wait further . I can understand the dillema u are in , but belaive me its not worth living ur life making up for one mistake , god is kind enough and thats why he has created days and nights, if the night comes , the next day be assured a beautiful day is awaiting for you .
2006-06-27 18:26:58 · answer #9 · answered by Sudip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, find out for sure if you are pregnant. If you are contact a pregnancy crisis center. Don't let any one decide what you should do, this choice will effect the rest of your life. I personally do not believe in abortion. But this has to be your decision. weigh all of your options before you decide. there is help out there for people in your predicament. you can also get help through public aid. good luck dear!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-28 02:45:22 · answer #10 · answered by just m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋