i'm a teen that doesn't know if this is good for me?!?!?

Question

if my boyfriend tells me he love me over and over again,buy me things, everything, and twice he hit me , first he pushed me hard onto my the floor than second time he slapped me not hard, but these couple weeks he's been very nice and take me places, and when i get made at him he ask for the keys to my 2006 mercedes and leave i'll see you at school tomorrow, we fuss about him as usual, i have a hummer so i don't worry, he been really personal with me saying he's sorry and want us to stay together and that he have anger issues,what should i do,he keep my benz when i'm mad and i have my hummer to drive to high school each morning,pls help,and he make me sit with him every morning at school and not my friends because we at a school where boys on one side of the school and girls on the other,he's the nicest, but i worry about him, his selfish ways!!!, he know i am very popular around other schools and ours, i play so many sports including basketball, have to many clubs,

I AM A WELL LIKE PERSON HE SAY HE DON'T WANT ANYONE ELSE I'M THE MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL AROUND OUR CITY

I COULD HAVE ANY BOY I WANT I JUST HAVE A HARD TIME GETTING OVER HIM,JUST BECAUSE HE'S FROM A BROKEN HOME HE THINK HE CAN CONTROL MEI'M BREAKING UP WITH HIM

Answer 1

I think you know it isn't good for you. He needs to take care of his anger issues before he even thinks about having a girlfriend. You should NOT have to deal with this.

Indeed, he should be ARRESTED for hitting you (the crime is called "assault and battery"), and you may just HAVE to have him arrested in order to be able to walk outside without a bodyguard once you break up with him.

Seriously, until you succeed in getting him behind bars, you need to explain this to your folks and at very least change schools, and possibly (with their agreement) leave town and not even tell them exactly where you are going (for their safety as well as your own).

Answer 2

He needs to see a counselor to help him get over his anger issues. I know you don't want to hear this, but being in an abusive relationship is not the best thing for you. He needs to spend some time getting his act together and then, maybe, if his counselor says he has actually made progress, you can try being together again. Also, why do you give him the keys to your car? Not a good idea. It's your car, so you should keep the keys.

Answer 3

Let's begin here. It is called ABUSE and you don't have to put up with it. He has issues and needs to deal with them and you need to give him the distance in that by leaving him. It is typical behavior for an abuser to be nice,sweet, loving, and buy all that stuff afterwards to help you remember the 'good things' and not weigh so heavily on the bad things. What vehicles you have is insignificant in this. Him taking them from you is, and its called CONTROL.
Since you state you are a teenager, tell your parents, tell your teachers,tell your school counselor, and the principal or head of your school. Striking you is assault and assault is a crime, and police arrest people on assault charges everyday. Please don't fall into allowing this to happen to you any further. It will eventually lower your self esteem and you will psychologically feel trapped unable to get out, and feel worthless. Its not a pretty life to live nor a beautiful road and takes a lot of help to overcome to regain your normal self again.

Answer 4

i can tell you this much the first part of what you stated
is classifiable
it is called a cycle of abuse(dangerous when violent)
starts slow in subtle controlling way's when proper
response is not inputed punishment recieved
followed by honeymoon period (making up)
then denial or minimization of event
each time gets progressively worse
eventually escalates into more and more violent
behavior victim becomes submissive or numb
to situation untill it gets very bad
the person you have described is trying to gain control over you and dominate you this is not seemingly
a healthy or well relationship at least it would
not appear so be carefull good luck

Answer 5

It sounds as though you have enough things "sweetening" your life already, WHY WOULD YOU WASTE YOUR PRECIOUS time, dealing with a jerk that would hurt you? Get on with your silver spoon life and leave the jerk for someone that doesn't have a benz or hummer to choose from!

Answer 6

well Honey if he hit you once he will do it again.trust me i have been there and they are always sorry afterword and the next time he will be sorry again but it will only get worse and then it will be a miracle if you get out alive.please don't take this lightly it really is a Big dill.i am lucky to be alive today and it started out just like that.

Answer 7

There is never a cause for abuse to be tolerated. Your things don't impress anyone. You are more valuable than the depreciating vehicles that you may have. Sent you an E-mail. Get some help.

Answer 8

don't ever let a boy hit you. always remember you are the boss and everything has to be in your way. if he does not like it to bad. there are toomany guys out there that do every thing just get your attention. If you have any question feel free to let me know.

Answer 9

Break it off with him. He's selfish and that anger issue might get you to your grave (based on numerous cases). You'll still meet a lot more better guys than him.

Answer 10

A WOMAN SHOULD NEVER STAND FOR A GUY TO HIT HER, EVER! I WOULD HAVE LEFT HIM BY NOW BC OF IT. IF THIS HAPPENDS THEN KEEP UR CAR. HE HAS NO RIGHT TO HIT U ONE MIN. AND USE UR CAR THE NEXT. THIS MEANS THAT HE IS USING U AND U DONT SEE THAT. HOPE U FIND WHATS BEST FOR U BUT I KNOW I WOULD NOT STAND FOR IT...