My uncle is ticked off at me now because i won't pick the best answer that he wants.?

Question

Now he is writing mean stuff about me. What should i do? If you are going to answer leave him alone or anything like that then don't write.

he said that you people need to grow up and move out of your parents house be cause you need to get a life

Answer 1

Poke him in the eye.

Then when the tears clear up... poke him in the other eye.

Answer 2

Well your question is so oblique.

Let me try to understand this? YOU have asked a question on here? YOU have gotten several answers? But YOUR uncle is upset over the answer that YOU want to choose?

Now he is writing "mean stuff" about you?

Apparently you have involved your uncle in your question and answer thing here? So for what ever reason you did that, more than likely just to get an opinion?

I would say to choose the answer that best meets YOUR needs.

As for the uncle? I would leave him out of any future Q&A. He does not have your best interests at heart. A truely concerned uncle/relative would never harm you with "mean stuff" about you.
He/they, would be nuturing, consoling and comforting to you.

Make your decision based on what ever answer you feel most comfortable with. Let the uncle absorb himself in hurting others and try not to let him get to you with his negativity.

Answer 3

Ask him this, why do you want me to pick "the best answer"?
And listen, really "listen" to what he has to say. Then tell him why you picked what you did. Really make your case. If need be paint him a picture. And if after all that he is still saying 'mean stuff about me' about you. Don't put yourself into that place again to where he can. If he bring it up, change the subject or ignore him as if he did not say anything to you.

Answer 4

Answers need not always be the best answers. If you cannot answer correctly just take the help of the mean uncle. See if he can help u give the right answer. You will find that even his answers will not be perfect. Remember: Those who themselves are not perfect , always try to find fault in others.

Answer 5

I wish I could fully understand you question a little more clearer, but I will say, that perhaps your uncle is a bit controlling, or maybe he thinks you`re not mature enough to make good choices, but he should allow you the opt, to make decisions for yourself or you could lose the courage to do so without feeling inadequate.

Answer 6

Leave him alone. He is just teasing you, I'm sure. We uncles are like that. Sometimes we tease a bit too hard. Tease him back. LIke "well, uncle, if you weren't so old and so totally square, you'd get a ton of points. Don't expect me to bale you out. I only have to love you."

Answer 7

I'm sorry but I really don't understand why your uncle would be mad about you not answering the question like he wants you to just answer the question the way he wants you to if you feel bad cause he's mad at you

Answer 8

Talk to your mum, or give us a little more information about your problem, sounds a bit concerning. Or perhaps you could tell your uncle to look for his own answers if he does not like yours.Tom Tom

Answer 9

Just try to ignore him if that doesn't work apologize even if your right with what ever is going on and if that doesn't work pick the right answer he wants or just go lock your self in your room.

Answer 10

Well, either you pick the best answer, or let the chosen answer come from voters. If he wants the chosen answer to be his, then maybe he should ask the same question.

Answer 11

ah..it is YOUR question!that means U pick the answer hes related to u u'll have your fights and he'll eventually get over it!pick what u want soemtimes I ask my mom which should I put and she is like It's your answer thing!so good luck to you both mabey he should get an asnwer account to give his advice!