I just don't understand. Why can't you just have a nice relationship with a guy (or girl, depending on who you are) without involving sex? Why does it seem to be all about sex?
2006-06-27 17:24:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Society has set us up with that frame of mind. Men are taught that that's the only true way to relate to a woman. And women are taught, "If you love him, it's okay". Sex does not make a relationship. It just adds more stress.
2006-06-27 17:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by Angell777 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well, not all relationships are about sex,and i give my ovation to those who can keep things pure. however, the mentality of young boys as well as girls also, has it that sex is a bonus of a relationship. perhaps some may not anticipate it but as time goes by and familiarity breeds passion (not contempt in this case) therefore, conscience gets blurred and decisions were made based on their raging hormones. some have thwarted mindset that relationship is for sex, primarily. and that is bad because sex is very volatile. yes, it may feel out-of-this-world at that point of time but that would be the last thing that will sustain a relationship through rocky times.
i guess the best way is to protect yourself from people who just do not respect your space and body. in that way you will know that the guy/girl is right for your relationship as sex is not the foundation of it. it has to be more than that to build a realtionship. and the question of sex can be a very good test to see the genuinity of the love u guys have. it can actually break it or to mak it stronger. oh, besides.. sex is usually (if not IS...) an agreement between both parties, therefore there is no particular side to point the finger at. just be wise...
2006-06-27 17:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by cynewulve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1- guy relate a relationship to sex
2- girls relate a relationship to emotional stability
both are part of a relationship you can't have a healthy relationship with out both aspects
2006-06-27 17:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by nsxplus1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets see, TV, movies, books, magazines. If you really think about it. Sex is over rated. Most guys don't bother to take there time its all wham bam thank you mam.
2006-06-27 17:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by pebbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a really good question...pry bc most things that guys think/talk bout is sex...i dunno but call me an oddity id rather just have a relationship w/o havin the social pressure of sex involved
2006-06-27 17:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by RJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well is a sign of love...every living things have sexual relationship ex dog...
2006-06-27 17:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The root of all evil....television
2006-06-27 17:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by doodlebugprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the mind, Its all up there honey!
2006-06-27 17:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by Navin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk it is weird because also at the same time people can have sex without having a relationship...sorta weird
2006-06-27 17:28:35 · answer #9 · answered by shark7777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋