My obsession?

Question

i am soooo obsessed with my bf.....i am either talking 2 him or about him.....thinking or dreaming about him.....i CONSTANTLY have him on my mind. Nobosy else thinks he is as great as i do. he seems sooo perfect. i don't know why i am soo crazy! Is it cuz he is my 1st bf, or cuz he is my soul mate or somethin'...
plz plz plz help!

plz answer seriously

he seems soooooo amazing! almost 2 perfect! The thought of him dumping me (which i'm sure he will soon cuz i call so much) makes me sad (eternally depressed) already.

Answer 1

I am very happy for you.
You are in love.
Don't let him go!

Answer 2

Well it depends on how new the relationship is, if its still a little new than it is normal and probably will subside. Being obsessed is not always a bad thing, however if you let it get in the way of doing your day to day work and schooling than it could be bad. I think that a lot of it has to do with the fact that it is your first boyfriend. I was the same way with mine.

Answer 3

I'm guessing your aged between 13 to 16. All girls that age are so clingy and obsecive. Its good your in love, some people cant find love. But don't be too clingy and obsecive, guys are frightend of that. Thats why I'm going out with a girl whos alot older. Good luck.

Answer 4

Since this is your first B.F., I wouldn't call it "an obsession". First B.F.'s are usually called "infatuation". You are infatuated w/ him because he is your "first". This is something that all women go thru w/ their first B.F., simply because it is the first time you have someone other than your parents, siblings, etc. paying any attention to you. Don't worry, it usually wears off by the time you get to your 3rd or 4th. Well, maybe - for some young ladies it takes a little longer; something like going thru menopause - it will eventually wear off.....

Answer 5

Help yourself to overcome that obsession, not all girls lack that self-discipline. My mom & other people around hated me when I keep mentioning & thinking of a boy, they just ask me to behave like a learned/educated woman. If you can't overcome that attitude, you will be hurt to death on the day your bf will leave you, and besides, boys doesn't like that attitude coz its suffocating & boring as if you're only good for sex.

Answer 6

You're definitely not in love but obsessed. I hope he never dumps you, I can honestly see your obsession turning into stalking ..get a job and keep yourself busy like most adults do, then again if you 12, as you sound like you are, ...keep obsessing, it's a pretty safe summertime activity lmao

Answer 7

I'm not trying to be hard, but maybe you aren't in love with yourself enough. I've been there, and its usually low self esteem or obsessive compulsive disorder-try lexapro. If this is your first bf it is understandable though-you have yet to be burned. Listen to your friends and families opinion of him-they aren't using rose colored glasses.

Answer 8

well hes ur first bf right so it kind of gives u an excuse as to why you are constantly think, talking ect... but yes i would say that its bcuz hes ur first bf & cuz its the first time you've fallen in love (i think) hope i was of help

Answer 9

well maybe it's bcuz he's ur first bf this happens 2 everyone.It hapend 2 me 2.But u jst gotta relize dat he isn't your whole life.I mean if u keep that up ur not gonna remain independen anymore you're going to depend on him 4 everything.So give him importance but give others and your self importance as well!!!

Answer 10

Yeah, you're in love, enjoy it, don't lose it. Make sure he feels the same about you too tho, or things might go down hill and that might hurt, GOOD LUCK! luv~carly

Answer 11

Is not obsession, don't worry is normal is the first one always is the same thing, but is hard when it ends it happened to me. I hope it doesn't happen to you. Take care baby!!!