WEll i found out today my boyfriend thinks im boring cause im a christian and i love god. So my brother went on and start acting differnet from me, like cursing(which i would never) and this girl had no God or purity in her life at all! and my boyfriend said he liked me like that, cause i dont care about God.
Why would a guy like that i curse, and slutty? other than the nice, classy girl who would be faithful?
2006-06-27 17:15:32 · 13 answers · asked by inthisskin22x 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
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2006-06-29 19:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by arajaajmali 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree with this reasoning, I am just looking through another point of view. Christians live by a set of rules and can often be predictable based on thier beliefs. the cursing slutty version is more random and spontaneous. If you are a devout christian there are probably things that you won't do because the bible says that they are sin or whatever. What if those are the things that he wants to do? All of a sudden you don't want to do what he wants to do.
2006-06-28 00:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by The Big Stu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Matthew 10:28 (The Message)
"Don't be bluffed into silence by the threats of bullies. There's nothing they can do to your soul, your core being. Save your fear for God, who holds your entire life—body and soul—in his hands.
Don't let your boyfriend convince you to become what your are not, if you doesn't love you as you are, a faithful Christian, then he doesn't really love you, he just wants you. I would suggest not being in that position, and boyfriend-girlfriend relationship with one who is not a Christian, it will only drag you down.
2 Corinthians 6:14-18 (The Message)
14-18Don't BECOME PARTNERS with those who reject God. How can you make a partnership out of right and wrong? That's not partnership; that's WAR. Is light best friends with dark? Does Christ go strolling with the Devil? Do trust and mistrust HOLD HANDS? Who would think of setting up pagan idols in God's holy Temple? But that is exactly what we are, each of us a temple in whom God lives. God himself put it this way:
"I'll live in them, move into them;
I'll be their God and they'll be my people.
So leave the corruption and compromise;
leave it for good," says God.
"DON'T LINK UP WITH THOSE WHO WILL POLLUTE YOU.
I want you ALL for myself.
I'll be a Father to you;
you'll be sons and daughters to me."
The Word of the Master, God
[emphasis mine]
I hope this helps, I would suggest just getting out of this relationship, remain steadfast in your faith, and find a Christian friend, who will build you up, encourage you, and further you in your faith. God bless!
2006-06-28 00:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by eefen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find somebody who likes you the way you are.
Do not be unequally yoked.
Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?"
2 Corinthians 6:14
2006-06-28 00:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by Dee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might like that you curse and act slutty, b/c he thinks that it means it'll be easier for him to get you to "go to bed with him" ... aka have sex with him.
Or it could be that he's one of those wierd guys that gets turned on by bad girls ... ... like a nerd getting turned on by video games.
2006-06-28 00:19:53 · answer #5 · answered by Lyssa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody always wants what they don't have. Some people (Most people) have a hard time evaluating what they really want out of life and need empirical situations to help them sort it out.
2006-06-28 00:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by natasha b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he isnt christian... and cussing and being slutty is pleasing tho the flesh.. but stay strong in God.. cause if he wants to change you.. hes not the one for you
2006-06-28 00:20:48 · answer #7 · answered by lil_sizz_inthehizz_ous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like slutty girls because they're easy.
Is it really that hard to understand?
2006-06-28 00:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by lenny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey honey, teenage boys like slutty girls lol.
2006-06-28 00:18:14 · answer #9 · answered by korngoddess1027 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he's into sluts...and it's obvious you're not one...move on...he doesn't know the real you...find a man who will take you for who you are. Classy. Now, that's kewl :)
2006-06-28 00:22:45 · answer #10 · answered by JERRY M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋