How do you know when the right time is to tell someone how you feel about them?

Question

Been seeing a guy now for going on two months. When is too soon to tell him that my feelings are moving towards love?

Answer 1

I think if you truly feel that you love this guy, you would wait until he gives you a sign that he feels the same way. If he is not in the same page as you are, then telling him how you feel about him might scare him away. Or worse, he might not feel the same about you, yet. Be patient, you will feel it when it's right.
Best wishes,

Answer 2

Honesty should be a good thing. I would tell him, but use the disclaimer; that this is how you feel, and being in a relationship isn't a race. It's ok if he's not there yet, you just thought he should now. Too many people get caught up in each partner needing to feel the exact emotions with the exact intensity and well thats nearly impossible.

Answer 3

Don't say anything. You want to feel like you are in a more committed relationship. The question is how do you get him to become more devoted or committed to you. The answer is, if he really wants to stay with you, the best way to make him commit more to you is to suggest that maybe you might be interested in some other guy, then he will panic and try to pull you in tighter.

If you say you feel more in love with him, he will feel more confident that he has control, and will be more likely to think about pursuing other women. It's not what you want to hear, but if you want to get what you want out of life and the people dear to you, you have to understand how to manipulate them. That's the truth.

Answer 4

Well I feel for you I have been dating someone for 3mths now and I keep getting told to just tell him that I love him but dont be hurt if he doesnt say it back right away. If he doesnt say it back just give him time and in a couple more months you never know he may return the same feeling.

Answer 5

i was reading in cosmo the other day that the average time it takes a couple to say i love you is 6 weeks. i think that is kind of soon... however my current bf and i have been dating for 7 months and im waiting on him to say it first. But it looks like i will break up with him soon because he won't... i feel kind of cheated in the relationship.... everyone deserves to be loved. if you tell him and he freaks out... then he is a a**hole prick head.


oh... tell him now

Answer 6

the time is NOW... you have to tell it as soon as the feeling comes... don't hide feelings.....
mitr says.... its always to be on either corners of a road..... if you walk in middle, you are likely to have an accident....
tell the guy how you feel..... you have to speak it out.... make the environment to speak such things as soon as possible.....
to make the environment, you have to be in a romantic high...... i guess you know what it means.......
if you hide your feelings, the guy may go for a different girl..... its all a ball game girl... get the guy before he even try to think about anyone else.....

Answer 7

you can worry about when to tell someone how you feel... or you can try to force it, but all of that won't work. There has been times when i'd plan what to say... I'd literally think I was going to do it and never did... just wait until you are ready.. both of you are, then go for it.

Answer 8

there is really now time but maybe u should just wait and let him tell u first instead of setting ur self up for something u dont want to here, because regection is no fun, ya know, be patienet and let him come to u

Answer 9

tell him when the moment is right. During a nice walk in the park etc.

The sooner the better IMO.

Answer 10

there is never a "right "time. u have to look them deep in their eyes and look deep in your soul to find out if u care enough about this person to tell them how u truly feel.