I posted a question about what people look for in a guy/girl, their 6 musts and must nots. Well heres my 6 musts and must nots, am I asking for too much?
Musts:
1. Must be Christian (and to me that means at least going to Church with me and not using The Lords name in vain and prays at least sometimes)
2. Must be honest with me or not hide things from me
3. Must respect me and treat me good.
4. Must Love me for me
5. Must Want a serious relationship (No games)
6. Must have a sense of humor
Must Nots:
1. Must not do drugs
2. Must not party or at least not too much
3. Must not pressure me about sex
4. Must not be abusive in any way
5. Must not have a temper
6. Must not cheat or must not have been married before (and I dont mean to offend anybody with that one, thats just my preferance)
So what do you think guys?, am I asking for too much? If I am, which ones am I asking too much on. And thanks for your opinions:)
2006-06-27 16:50:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To Timothy W, I know those were the things I At Least want them to do..I know theres a lot more but I at least want that, nothing less and more would be good. But I know what you're saying:)
2006-06-27 16:59:09 · update #1
And sorry I wasnt more clear on that one, my definition of a Christian is more than that those were just some examples.
2006-06-27 17:02:03 · update #2
You are a very smart person knowing what you want .
What you are looking for is not too much if you want your love for that special person to last and be strong.
Do not let anyone or anything lower your standards for want you want.Good luck.
2006-06-27 17:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by metal bender 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is completely normal to have a list of preferences. In fact I think that every one does. At least you are honest about it. And no your list isn't too harsh. Don't settle for anything less.
The only time you can settle for less is when you are just after cheep sex. But when you want the thing to last you need to know what you will be happy with. No body is happy in a settle for relationship. They either have a list of preferences which is satisfied or they get divorced!
2006-06-27 17:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by budokan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you know what you want and don't want, that makes the search for a guy for you easier. However it does narrow the field a lot. It may take some time but when you do find a guy that fits your criteria it may all be worth the wait. And by the way, I'm not the guy your looking for.
2006-06-27 16:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by Some guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're asking too much. Please don't listen to those who will inevitably tell you to lower your standards.
I think you need to seriously consider RAISING your definition of what a Christian guy should be. He ought to be seriously pursuing Christ as Savior and Lord of his life...not simply going to church and not blaspheming. Talk to your youth pastor about that one.
And yes, I'm a guy.
2006-06-27 16:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by Timothy W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw u WERE NOT ASKIN A LOT UNTIL NOT ALOT OF PARTING BUT EVERY GUY I KNOW HAS TO PARTY U CAN STOP HIM FOM PARTY HE MIGHT TAKE YOU TO ONE U NEVER KNOW
2006-06-29 02:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by dominique 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not, you just have to be patient.
2006-06-27 16:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by obsalazar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋