can women really change men?

Question

if they love eachother....can a good friendship become a great relationship if the two people are complete opposites....

Answer 1

For sure... if yo are really in love, you can make it

Answer 2

Isnt that what we look for? Our other halfs? I think theres a greater passion between complete opposites, knowing that they are everything you are not, and that you are everything they arent, you compliment one another at the same time contradicting on every level.
But what does it matter, you have what people put themselves thru hell over and over again looking for, you've got love, and with that, complete opposites can be one.
Just remember once you cross that line, theres no going back.

Answer 3

A man will change if he chooses to. He would need a reason to make this choice. But it soes happen. And you might still be very different in some things. Learn tolerance and space.

Answer 4

no, the saying opposites attract is bogus.....the attraction will fade rapidly once you are into the relationship on a deep level....its when 2 people are mainly similar but with a few differences that work the best.....keep your friend

Answer 5

Sometimes complete opposites can compliment each other. It can happen, me and my husband worked. I changed his attitude in a lot of situations.

Answer 6

No. Women don't change men. Sorry guys. Women guide boys into men and boys decide if they want to be the man their woman suggests, or move on to another woman's ideas. Honestly, it's like mommy-hunting.
Men wouldn't be with us if they weren't interested in some way we think or how we live our personal lives. Usually (unless a man is a total whore and only wants a woman for her looks), men will seek out a woman that reminds him of his mother. Not because men are into the family-thing... it's because the majority of men love and trust their mothers. They want the same from their lover.
Think about it. If mom tells her boy he should brush his teeth, he'll brush his teeth. If mom says to do his homework, he'll get into the routine of homework and maybe go on to college from good work habits.
When a boy is looking to dive into manhood, they look for the woman who will guide them in a way that is constructive change, rather than changing for the benefit of a snake woman. Snakes just want everything for themselves. Men that change to please a woman is mentally incapable of thinking for himself, obviously.

A good man should know when he is being manipulated and forced to change in order to please someone. Also, he is a good man if he chooses a woman based on her intellect and guidance. It shows he wants guidance in his life, insight to guide her in the future, and guidance for their potential children.

So no. I don't believe for one second that women change men. Men choose to change. They choose whether they agree to change. If they don't agree... they won't change. It's as simple as that.

Answer 7

if the guy is whipped outta his mind...but i think if ur gonna have a great relationship u should like each other 4 who they r n not hafta change each other...bc then ur just bein unfaithful 2 urself...unless ur talkin bout bad habits like smokin er heavy drinkin....but ima say most women can change most men

Answer 8

well, women dont really change men, its just perceived that way because the man does what the woman wants so she doesnt talk about it anymore.

Answer 9

Seasons Change ... People Don't

Answer 10

i dont understand wat ur askin....is it can women change men or can a good friendship become a great relationship if the two people are complete opposites? pick ur question.

Answer 11

i dont think so people are only ones who want to change them selves we can only try to influence there change, but i feel if u have to get to that and depends what u want to change maybe there not for you