I've been talking to this girl for five months over the phone and we're going to meet up soon, i'm strongly attracted to her and believe it or not i'm certain i'm in love with her we talk everyday on the phone we practically know everything about each other, we've shared so much even though it's only been over the phone and internet, i just want to know if anyone thinks that when we meet if we will feel the same as we did over the phone and stuff i saw tons of pictures of her and some videos too and she saw alot from me also, i guess i need some consoling words to reassure me that everyhing will be alright when i meet her i know it might be awkward at first but i just want to hear other peoples point of view on this, please help..........
2006-06-27 16:31:48 · 11 answers · asked by niles882003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a good thing that yall have seen pics of each other, and you have a very good chance since yall have had 5 months to get to know each other. Remember, everyone wants to be with someone including her, so you are already both on the same page; in other words you both are looking for the same thing. BUT--in this cruel Internet world, even pics cannot substitute for actually being with someone. In pictures, we can make ourselves look good. In person you will see a person in both their good and bad looks. How often do you see a pic of someone first thing in the morning, or even on the pot for that matter! ha ha think about it. But I really do think you have a good chance. Everyone wants to be happy with someone, just remember that.
2006-06-27 16:39:38 · answer #1 · answered by skidmark 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
some happy real life stories to make u feel better. My godsis chatted wid this guy on the phone for a month before agreeing to meet him and eversince they've hit it off and been together for seven years and just 2 wks ago tied the knot. Another story, my cuz met her husband online many years ago, been chatting online since then, he flew over to Singapore to meet her and while it was awkward at first, things started to get better once both got relaxed. They got married few flights (visiting each other got expensive, lol) later.
Anyway my advice to you is just relax, be yourself and be opened to anything that comes your way. She may be the most sweetest person online but can be quite the opposite in real life so take this time to get to know her personality and character, if she's a good person you wanna be with. Have fun!! Good luck!! :)
2006-06-27 23:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by singaporegirljuly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that when you meet her be the same person as you are over the phone and internet with her if you are certain you love her...don't be surprised if you get stuck with conseqences...remember it is not about looks, but about feelings and what you have felt for her...just be yourself and remember my tip...be that same open minded guy you probably are...Good Luck Hun.
2006-06-27 23:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by HideAnotherMistake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
should be fine....unless its not a girl at all n shes just a sexualy predator n found pics n vids online...lol where i live ppl blow sexual predators up way 2 much n they think that ne1 ova the age of 30 whose online everyday is a sexual predator...but yea u should be fine as long as u dont change the way u act bc i kno there r sum ppl who like say stuff via phone n internet that they would nvr say 2 sum1 face2face
2006-06-27 23:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by RJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might it will be abit akward at first because you wont know hwo to approach each other,i just hope that she is everything she says she is as it would be dissapointing for you but sound slike evrything will go well just tame your nearves because she will be really nervous but i am sure she will go to alot of effort to look her best for you when you meet her,
2006-06-27 23:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k me n my bf r exactly d same way n its been 8 mnths now n we cant meet b4 d next yr jun....bt we r pretty confident tht alls gonna b fine,in fact we r damn damn serious n his parents knw abt me n we hav weddin plans too...sounds gud to reassure u tht things do happen tht way n r pretty normal, in fact we knw everythn abt each othr n i m d closest to him n he to me n it really feels gr8 to b tht comfortable wid some person dis way ,so new to hav nt met someone n yet knw him sooo very well ,so much understandin tht its marvellous n we r pretty sure theres gonna b no misunderstandings once we r together, meetin each othr forever.....yes we r in true lov n its d ultimate feeling,trust urself enough to make things happen as u want them to n believe me no one can stop them thn !! gud luck n i wish it ws me too to meet him d way u guys r
2006-06-27 23:47:38 · answer #6 · answered by cravingbrains 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I meet people online and then meet them offline and its ok
2006-06-27 23:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i have to say is be urself and let things flow
2006-06-27 23:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to meet her, go for it!..WE WILL SUPPORT YOU!
2006-06-27 23:35:41 · answer #9 · answered by Eddy A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it will work if u have little confidence.
2006-06-27 23:36:02 · answer #10 · answered by tejinder k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋