I get many guys leaving me messages on a dating service and I send them a message back and then days or weeks go by and they will email me and say "hi, what are you doing" or how was your weekend. I answer them and tell them a few things and I don't hear back from them for a week or so. Some of these guys seem like good prospects but they never get to asking me out or into any real conversations. I have the habit of answering them whenever they email but I am getting tired of it. Should I just stop answering them back because they are a lost cause. If they are just slow to ask someone out, i hate to think how long it would take them to committ to someone. I don't want to be rude but I am tired of the endless emailing. A week or two is o.k before meeting but a message once or twice a week for 2 or 3 months is ridiculous.
2006-06-27 16:26:31 · 4 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't waste your time.
2006-06-27 16:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by cheeky chic 379 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be straight up about your expectations. Ask one that you think is a good prospect when he thinks meeting you would be cool. If the answer doesn't work for you, then move on.
2006-06-27 23:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by thewildeman2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just stop. For better or worse, they're not really interested in you and are just stringing you along.
2006-06-29 10:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by AnOrdinaryGuy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Block them from your email. They are game players.
2006-06-27 23:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋