Yes, but only if you would love to have a child, if that's gonna make you happy. I believe that one parent is enough as long as he/she takes care about the child. Love is what matters, not a signature on a piece of official paper.
2006-06-27 16:16:09
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answered by Anonymous
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Lots of people CHOOSE to have children outside of wedlock because they feel marriage is not for them. Before doing so though you should know of the consequences of such actions. Marriages are a little more binding than boyfriend/girlfriend relationships so keep in mind what could happen down the road. But also know that marriage doesn't quarantee that these things won't still happen.
The only reason I see to be against getting pregnant when you are not married is to get pregnant when you don't want to. If you have no desire to have children you should either be abstaining or taking some serious precautions to avoid bringing unwanted life into this world. There is too much of that as it is.
2006-06-27 23:15:32
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answered by TiFFeRz 4
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Your body and hormones do not know the difference between "married" and "not married." Marriage is merely a ceremony made up by humans. If you want to get pregnant (note correct spelling) without being ceremonially attached to a guy, go right ahead. Just make sure you can adequately take care of the child, because taxpayers don't want to do it for you.
Edited to add that I'm using "you" in the generic sense, not addressing anyone in particular.
2006-06-27 23:22:19
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answered by Antique Silver Buttons 5
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I think it has less to do with marital status than individual character. Are you prepared to teach a child all the things they will need to be taught in order to become a productive citizen? Have you lived enough in your own life not to feel resentful later when your life isn't just yours anymore? Also, can you afford a child, or will it become a burden on someone else? Marriage is overrated anyway, I believe there are a few, very select people who will ever succeed in marriage and be truly happy with the life they end up with.
2006-06-27 23:17:24
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answered by ThatOneGirl 2
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Does marriage insure that her child will have both a mother and father to raise him or her--- NO.
Does marriage insure that the child will grow up in a loving home- NO.
Does marriage insure that the child will have good morals-- NO.
A woman should get pregnant if both people in the relationship want a baby.
A woman should get pregnant if she is in a committed relationship.
A woman should get pregnant if she feels she is ready to be a mom.... even if its through artificial insemination. Does not matter if she is in a relationship or not.
All in all it is a personal choice. Therefore it is a SUBJECTIVE situation not an OBJECTIVE one.
2006-06-27 23:18:36
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answered by catalyst 3
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I think after marriage is best , At least be prepared to marry the girl, The only thing my dad ever said to me about sex is "don't do it with some one that you wouldn't want to sit
across the table from the rest of your life."
And we weren't all that religious, just moraly straight. Iam maried 28years , two sons 21 and 18 About the only advice dad gave thatI kept.
2006-06-27 23:21:02
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answered by Anonymous
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I don't think it's wrong to get pregnant outside of marriage in a religious sense, but unless you're well-off, I think it's a disservice to the child. In fact, unless you're able to support your kids on your own, I don't think that you should be having kids. It makes me too sad to see the kids living in squalor today because their parents (unmarried or married) aren't able to afford any better.
2006-06-27 23:27:44
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answered by Ally 4
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I feel like when a girl is mean t to be pregnant it will happen married or not. and who cares what others think. everything happens for a reason,Ppl who say an unmarried mother is evil/ wrong are justt holy rollers who need to realize that. I
2006-06-27 23:14:55
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answered by Lilmisssassy 4
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No! I am going to wait until I'm married.Then my wife can get pregnat. I would not get pregnat unmarried if I were you! I won't do it till I say my vows.
2006-06-27 23:13:52
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answered by Anonymous
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I suppose if you believe in the bible it says sex is suppose to be between a husband and a wife. So that would mean no you shouldn't conceive if you're not married, if you do believe in that.
2006-06-27 23:18:35
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answered by wondering 2
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