But you want him and want his happiness. and you think his not happy with this person. his only with her because he got her pregnant. How doI do it, I love him so much, And hurts me to think that he might have forgotten me. When i still carry his picture in my purse and still hurt for him.
2006-06-27 15:55:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just need to move on. You will always have feelings for him. No matter what his reason(s) are for not being with you .... the fact is ... he isn't. He moved on as well. It just takes time to let the wounds heal but you will eventually get there.
2006-06-27 15:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg this happened to me. My fiancee at the time got a girl prego! We were fighting alot and we took sometime off to get away from each other and not even 2 weeks into it he had gotten a girl knocked up. It hurt and i still loved him. I began going out with the girls and got more involed in activites, Like going to the gym, rock climbing, shopping, etc. And slowly but surely the love faded. It wasnt easy I will tell you that much. It took almost a year to completely forget him.
2006-06-27 16:01:31 · answer #2 · answered by cali girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would give it my ALL to forget him. He got another girl PREGNANT no way he can be with me now. He's gonna have a kid now, I'll have to throw away his picture, and throw away the feeling of yerning for him. Try it. I'm sure many girls go through the same thing. I've gone it, or at least in the process, except my guy didn't get another girl pregnant. I just can be with him. But I'm doing it... so can you!
2006-06-27 15:59:59 · answer #3 · answered by dotbrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 21:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must ask yourself the question. Do I really love him or the idea of him. Loving a person has little to do with where they are. With, love comes respect. Love does not hurt, loneliness and loss does. If you feel he really loves you hold on to that love for it can be eternal. Use it to make you stronger not weaker. Love and respect the decisions of those you hold dear, and good will find, and heal you!
2006-06-27 16:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by enlightenedone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey sometimes you never get over a love but you move on, we get hurt we love and we hurt others , it is a way of life, move on let him go, if it is meant to be he will come back one day if it is not you will find another, live your life and let him live his he has a child to take care of if nothing else,a lost love will hurt but you will make it and learn from it take the picture out of your purse put it away , cry your tears and move on he did
2006-06-27 16:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by ccnunges2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch, it will take time for the feelings to go away. You have to force yourself to move on. You will find someone else, even though you probably don't believe that now. Take one day at a time and get out and enjoy life.
2006-06-27 15:59:47 · answer #7 · answered by thewildeman2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might just have to stop, and get over it. It's hard to do, but a man like that will just stay "for his child". He doesn't realize that what he's doing is hurting not only himself, but others around him. You can't change a guy like that.
2006-06-27 15:58:12 · answer #8 · answered by Rock Goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't! you are going to care for that person for a long time. evenutally you wont think about them as much and when you do it will be the good times you had with him. I am sure he hasnt forgotten you, he's just a man and is thinking with his little brain!
2006-06-27 15:59:16 · answer #9 · answered by reginie@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this one plain and simple u dont u may want to but u never will i am going through the same thing i want more then anything to stop loveing him but it is hard but it will get better it is starting to for me hell i have been broke up with my ex for almost 2 months and at first all i did was cry and beg for him to take me back but he wouldn't and now i dont even talk to him about and i am starting to want to date agian (a lil) but just take it day by day and it will get better
2006-06-27 16:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋