i started smoking heroin and crack at the age of 17 i stopped at 21 after relocating to another part of the country (england) during those 4/5 years i had 1 long term girllfriend who i lied to all the time about my habits saying they were only recreational and under control eventually though she could no longer handle the trouble i was causing as i got worse and worse into the drugs and the lies got weaker and weaker and she left, i am now 22 and free of drugs however i have lost all my former confidence in myself and find it a lot harder to talk to girls than i did pre/during my habit, not only confidence in my appereance but confidence in my ability to be honest, so, would you trust me enough to give me a chance? this is not a personal ad, i am not on the pull i just want to know your hones opinion
2006-06-27 15:50:31 · 6 answers · asked by danny boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes i would. i went to rehab when i was 16 for being a crack addict and being bulimic. i know how you self esteem goes down, but i keep pressing on. you should give me your email address if you want. i would love to get to know you
2006-06-27 16:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by sparkles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, no. Maybe just cause I have never even smoked a cigarette and being with someone that has done something as self destructing as heroin would scare me. That's something that effects everyone close to them and relapse is always a possibility. However, I am the type of person that if I didn't know all that info and got involved and the relationship was progressing, I wouldn't just throw you away because of it. I think I would be looking for lies though. Or looking for signs of relapse or things of that nature. I don't want to put your spirits down, I am just answering your question honestly. I wish you all the best.
2006-06-27 15:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're off the drugs (and I hope we're talking months, not days) then yes you will find a girl that will give you a chance. The best thing I can offer, is be honest. Don't hide the fact that you have a problem. Because it's a daily battle not to go back to using. You need someone that's going to support that battle and be there for you. Only an honest foundation will get you that. Good luck and good for you for giving it up!
2006-06-27 15:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by tinydancer42001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that isn't any difficulty and if she's despatched images to different adult males it really is wonderful too see you later as she wasn't with you even as doing it. If the truly individual she's sending them too is then you sit down back and luxuriate in and do not spread them round.
2016-10-13 21:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would trust you only if you were straight up honest. people make mistakes and wrong choices. Try to find someone at an aa meeting
2006-06-27 15:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by carmen c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i probably would because u sound like ur not lieing just try to stay drug free!
2006-06-27 15:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by Alexandria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋