I REALLY like him, I think about him all day and I sometimes wake up and can't get back to sleep because I think about him. And I heard that he likes my bff. Help me please!
2006-06-27 15:42:54 · 15 answers · asked by chior chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him out. Then you'll really know if you had "no chance with him." The constant thinking about him is based on your desire for him. This desire is re-enforced from a hope that you can obtain him. If you ask him out and he says yes, then you will have satisfied your desire and the constant thinking about will probably stop. If you ask him out and he says no, then the hope is negated and the desire will become illogical since you know for a fact that you cannot have him. Then you will probably stop thinking about him. Or you can do nothing, and live with regret and wonder if you could have had him. Of course in time you will stop thinking about him, but doing nothing about it may take longer.
2006-06-27 15:50:36 · answer #1 · answered by practical thinking 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must just tellyourself the truth that you already know- that you have no chance with him, and beto love yourself. Somewhere along the way, as you love yourself, and appreciate your qualities and who you are, there will be somto love you in return. You must first be appreciated, before you start thinking 'rosy' thoughts about a future with someone you mibe attracted to. Physical attractions are fine and they are normal for uds. You just need to have the presence of mind to recognize when, and if it is returned, and more importantly,when there is more substance there; like intellectual compatibility, common likes, goals, etc...
Anyway, bottom line is- it is their loss........they don't know what they're missing............
Meanwhile, move on to greener pastand someone who you do have a chance with...............believe you're worth the time and effort.............let 'em come after you, and just sit back and see what presentsa itself to you. You might be pleasantly surprised at what comes your way.
There's more fish in the sea!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-27 22:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by jadonnia314 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby!!! You are great because you think about your friend I know how does it feel, but I think you can find another guy that really put his attention in You. Take care and Good Luck!!!
2006-06-27 22:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by Kenia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but if you find out please post the answer. I have the same problem with girl I know. I can't get her out of my head, songs remind me of her, she's all I can think about. And to make things worse, she's seeing a guy who doesn't appreciate her. I realize I probably have no cahnce with her but she's still all I can think about.
2006-06-27 22:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by Some guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should focus on something else such as reaching for a goal. Whether it be getting a job, improving your althetic skills, or whatever to keep yourself busy and going something productive.
2006-06-27 22:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by jamie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I ask the same question before and the only way to deal with it is to think of something really fun about your family.
2006-06-27 22:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG Same thing happend to me! My friend and my crush were going out and me and the guy were just friends. My friend got really jealous and she has hated me ever since. i wouldn't try to offend anybody but you shouldn't just give up. Just because you talk to him and have a crush on him shouldn't make your friend mad. *GoOd LuCk*
2006-06-27 22:48:10 · answer #7 · answered by jacquelyn. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man that sucks, that means your going to have to put yourself out there and get his attention, why do say you have no chance? if you re female then you have a chance with any guy, trust me on this.you just have to find a way to stand out, basically you have to let him know that your interested
2006-06-27 22:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by ♫jmann♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone new. Point out and think about all the bad qualities he has.
2006-06-27 22:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by maya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I first think ur adorable :) but what u gotta do is get with someone cause thatll help u forget bout him
2006-06-27 22:45:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋