ok, my boyfriend and I were having sex today. We were enjoying it (at least I was!) It seemed that sex was over, but I realized that he did not c u m. It never happned before.. I couldn't ask him why... Now I feel bad about this becasue I really enjoyed it but i feel like he didn't. (he said it was great but...) What do you think about this? Should I ask him what happned? Or shouldn't I? Is it not a big deal??
2006-06-27 15:38:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not a big deal. It happens from time to time. No use in asking him, he might be offended, so don't bother asking. If it continuously happens, then i would ask and tell him he needs to see a doctor. Then something could be wrong with him, health wise.
2006-06-27 15:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not necessarily a big deal. Sometimes I can have sex several times and not ***. It doesn't mean I didn't enjoy it.
It may mean he was distracted by something. But probably it was nothing. Don't worry, just have fun.
At least he didn't go off in 30 seconds and spoil your fun!
2006-06-27 15:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by K B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him what happened. It is important to talk about sex with your partner and seek what you both want. Actually, I have been in the same situation before and after I asked him why it really cleared up my thought. So, dont worry and just ask him what was wrong. Good luck
2006-06-27 15:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by lalala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a big deal. If it happens often, it might indicate an issue, but it happens to all guys every once in a while - just can't "get there".
Best wishes and God bless.
2006-06-27 15:41:25 · answer #4 · answered by bobhayes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was afraid. If it was one of the first times, the chances are that the pressure got to him. Also, depending on his age, he may need a visit to the doctors...or perhaps he just couldn't get there, have you heard the saying "it takes two to tango"? Maybe you should help him out a bit!
2006-06-27 15:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by beauvoir_babe1865 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man.
You didn't do anything wrong, first off.
Yes you should talk to him and it's going to be akward.
Sometimes this happens to me and my bf, for us it's the lack of Lube. It just becomes painfull after a while
I'm so sorry that happened, Man that sucks!
2006-06-27 15:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by Rainbow_Crayon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not a big deal. do you always c*m? sometimes guys don't either. i know it's rare! but it is true. he might be stressed or have some things on his mind... ask him. just say "i was just wondering if everything is ok... when we had sex you didn't c*m. do you have something on your mind?" or something along those lines. don't do that "what's wrong?! is it me!? what did i do wrong!?" they hate that sh1t.
2006-06-27 15:43:12 · answer #7 · answered by Knocked Up 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask him....it may not have anything to do with you...he could be stressed or something, causing him not to finish...don't make a big deal out of it....if he didn't mention it when it happened, it may not have bothered him...find out what's going on but be nice about it
2006-06-27 15:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by nikki_mh02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not a big deal it happen sometimes... It could be alot of things but nothing to worry about...
2006-06-27 15:51:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest that you should talk to him and ask about it.about the sex..both of you should enjoy it.not just you..okay..
2006-06-27 15:51:34 · answer #10 · answered by ladyz1010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋