2006-06-27 15:27:57 · 32 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop having sex with him and find out
2006-06-27 15:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey that is the main thing that most men want. Everything else in life follows.
This is an age old question. How 'DO' we know? Well, if he spends time with you, you know just hang'n out, you've met his family/friends, you go places together, then, no it's not just about sex.
If he only shows up to get his groove on, then leaves quickly or in a couple hours - the interest is probably just sex.
To Test this theory, You can make plans for the two of you to go somewhere (Public) maybe with your family. If he gives every kind of excuse/reason why he can not or does not want to go....Then his interest in you is not marriage. Now if you are just beginning your relationship, the main goal usually is sex.
So you, might just want to talk with him about it. good luck!
2006-06-27 16:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by 4mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately men are good liars when it comes to love. I was under the impression that i was loved in the past by some boyfriends, they may have thought they were too, but anyways. You will actually know by feeling this weird connection all of a sudden when you are in love and by in love i mean two people loving eachother unconditionally, no matter what. It's one of those "feelings" that cannot be explained. I actually fully realized that my partner and i truly love eachother because one time we were having sex and we experienced not only the physical connection, but a mental, pyschological connection which was so beautiful that we both got a tear in our eye. You will know though and if you feel that you need to ask this question you should rethink the relationship.
2006-06-27 15:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by angelinas_twin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and him have a good time doing stuff together out of the house or where ever you have sex, it's a good sign!
On the other hand if he shows up and wants to have sex and then leaves or gets easily irritated with you, it isn't a good sign. You are worth more than just being a sex partner. You hold all the cards, so demand other types of attention. If he doesn't provide what you want then he isn't into "you", he is into sex. Good luck
2006-06-27 15:33:50 · answer #4 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good way to find out is the put a hold on the sex in the relationship. If he is really in the relationship for the right reasons then he will stay and help work out the problem. Otherwise he is a jerk and you're better off without him!
2006-06-27 15:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by Booker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asks you about your life and it dosen't involve sex, then I think it's fair to assume he's into you for more than just the physical part of any relationship. Bottom line, they all want sex. Recognize the difference between love and lust. You will know he is into you when he wants to spend time with you outside of the bedroom.
2006-06-27 15:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by dizzylittledaisy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are wondering this, you need to set an open line of communication. Tell him how you feel. Does he do all the little things for you? Take you out to dinner, buy you a flower, or stuff like that? Does he write you love letters? What does he say when you say, "I love you"? Ask him what he sees for the two of you in the future.
2006-06-27 15:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by thewildeman2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having so much sex and start spending time with one another. If he's still into you, it's not just the sex.
2006-06-27 15:34:27 · answer #8 · answered by cookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you say you're not in the mood, does he get crappy, or cop an attitude? If you're not in the mood for a week, does he really get crappy?
Does he still come around and take you out and do stuff with you when you're on your period?
Figure out the answers to these questions, and you should have a fairly good idea.
2006-06-27 15:31:18 · answer #9 · answered by jimmy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he sticks around! If he prefers to take you to bed than go out to dinner, family functions, shopping, etc. then most likely he just wants sex. If that is the case dump him
2006-06-27 15:31:26 · answer #10 · answered by cali girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to lay off the sex for awhile so you two can concentrate on growing your relationship without the crutch of the physical rush. Gauge his reaction. If he's willing to be patient, he probably cares for you. If he balks, he's probably not in this for the long-term.
2006-06-27 15:30:12 · answer #11 · answered by Regularguy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋