how come in high school the girls always want the older guys and why is it so depressing not being w/ someone?

Question

As if high school isn't hard enough when your always with someone. I think its harder not being with someone! I feel so empty and well not so great and its summer this is the time of year that I get to have fun but how can I have fun always being the third wheel on dates its no fun doing things by yourself!! please help or my summer is doooommmed for sure !!!!!!

Answer 1

I always wanted a bf in high school, but I rarely got one. The more anxious you are, the less are your chances. After I went to college, I started wanting being alone again. It was so much fun flirting with guys but not having a serious relationship. I could go out with one guy one day and with the other the next. It was great.
What I'm trying to say is, I wasn;t very popular in HS. Went I went to college, I changed. ALL of the girls from HS that were popular with boyfriends became hat and ugly. I'm serious. It is those quiet ones from HS that have more fun later on. Just wait and you'll see. Don't worry anymore. You're young, you'll find one someday,

Answer 2

It's going into July already, dude. See you in September, when the summer's thru. Just make sure that next year there is someone there for you! Being a third wheel is no fun, but the girl that's with your buddy enjoys your company too, and she probably has a friend or cousin! This summer won't be a total loss!

Answer 3

Girls like older guys because they can do a lot more. Usually they have cars, they have money, and if they are old enough, they can buy cigarettes or alcohol.

There's too much pressure to be with someone at young age. Everyone is bragging about their experiences and who they are dating. Some of them will be pregnant before 16 and throw their whole lives away. You have a full life ahead of you, live it to the fullest and stop worrying!! Just enjoy the present. If you worry about not having a bf all summer, THEN you have wasted it!!

Answer 4

Wow, I was an older guy in high school and no girl ever came after me...but on the depressing stuff, its always that way. Take it from me. I'm THE most single guy you could ever meet. How is that possible you ask? Well, I've NEVER had a relationship before. No girl's ever given me the chance. How depressing do you think that is?

Answer 5

Well it hurts everyone not to be with someone....

but...the girls..instinctively know that the older guys are usually the ones that are working and driving and able to take them places....I always got a kick out of my daughters and neices when they would meet a boy at a shopping mall...have a slice of pizza, talk for an hour and call it a "date".

Oh to be young again.

Answer 6

Gosh I know the feeling of not having a boyfriend. Girls go for older guys cause they are soo much more mature than people our own age.I kno its no fun having to do stuff by yourself.If you wanna chat im me at [e-mail] I promise im not a freak

Answer 7

i feel the xact smae way 2! but i think the imp. thing 2 realyz is that there r tonz of guyz out there. go 2 the mall or go 2 community soccer games or just get out there so u kan meet someone. sooner or l8r ur boutnd 2 meet someone!-kraioloa

Answer 8

well the scary thing is that men in their 40's like you since your in high school. Men want older woman until the are 40, then they flip and want as young as possible. it's gotta be the midlife crisis they go through

Answer 9

The older guys have cars. And more money. Plus girls "mature" faster than boys, so there is maybee the same level of maturity.

Answer 10

Well, I'm in high school, and I like a guy 2 grades lower than me. Hmm...loser much?! So yeah...get yourself a friend...or just talk to a guy from school and ask him to hang out. Good luck and God bless...