things didn`t work out and it`s over but i`m not over him yet, can`t move on
2006-06-27 15:25:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time heals all wounds things will get better keep your head up bad times don't last always
2006-06-27 15:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by toosexy4thisshit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, I am sorry that you are hurt. I have been there and totally understand how you feel. I dont know how you guys broke up. If you still love him and if you still see the potential in two of you, you should talk to him and maybe you two will work it out. But if it is completely over, you should try to look into your future. One day when you meet someone new and wonderful, you will be able to think "thank god I am over with him". I promise you. Good luck.
2006-06-27 15:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by lalala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm feeling you girl...
i can honestly say that it has to be time, each day it gets a little easier for me, though real love never goes away, its a energy and it is either transferred or stored, you have to get some acceptance about the whole thing.
as long as you know you've done your best and that it has to be this way then you should also know that it is not the end of the world.
get involved in some other activities, have fun meet new people, with each passing day it will get better..and hey, if it is meant to be it will but don't force it.
Go out with the girls kick it...
2006-06-27 15:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having the same problem. There really is nothing. People have told me "time heals everything." but that's NOT true. I still can't move on and it's been over 6 months. What I try to do is have fun with my friends and keep busy. It keeps my mind off things for a little while..but other than that, you'll just have to wait for your prince charming to come sweep you off your feet =]
2006-06-27 15:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by Hollywood™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Try to think of someone or somethin else. Dont think about that person. Cry ur heart out and u wont hav anymore tears for him anymore. As time goes by u will forget him. Same thin happend to me. It takes long but it works.
2006-06-27 15:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by eun3hei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gone thru tat 11mths ago when i broke up with my ex..I think the same way as you, i was so hurt and alwaz thinkin of him.Thinkin i will not get into relationship again and also thinkin watz the point of thinkin of someone that is not the One I wan to spend for the rest of my life. But who knows there's someone beta. Now im with my current bf, very blissing and happy together. Your smiles means a world to someone around you! Start treasuring yourself and jiayou!!
2006-06-27 15:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by babyPiglet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have faith that someone better WILL come along, probably when you least expect it. I was engaged, and when it ended I was devastated. I never wanted to look at another man. And when I was least expecting it, the man of my dreams walked into my life. We have been married now for 7 years! If it's meant to be it will, otherwise the perfect man is probably right under your nose and you don't even see him because you are hung up on Mr. Wrong. Believe in Big things and they will come. I promise.
2006-06-27 15:32:34 · answer #7 · answered by cookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are going through the same thing .its been over for about 8 months.i still cry and wonder where he is.i think i am going crazy because i can't seem to move on either.it kinda hangs on.he was in the army so i am reminded of him all the time.but do you know how i get through it i just think you know where ever he is,he is not thinking of me.so why should i waste one more minute being upset over it.no amount of crying or hurting will bring him back.he is gone.i am slowly getting over him and you will too .just hang in there good luck
2006-06-27 15:34:04 · answer #8 · answered by dede2772 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will, it takes time. When my ex and I broke up, the only way I handled it was by telling myself that we would get back together in a couple months when he missed me. Someone told me that there is something inside you that won't let you hurt so badly forever, and its true, subconsciencly your heart knows when you've had too much, its true. Just spend time with friends and try to have fun until this happens.
2006-06-27 15:29:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't just forget. It takes time and diversion. The more you do to create a diversion of the memories the sooner you can get over him. Good luck
2006-06-27 15:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz u think you can't..try to think that you can move on and start moving on...he's not worth a tear or any thought...you deserve to be happy and enjoy life...there is still alot of chance...don't let those pass you by cause you tightly tied up with those negative things...
"gotta take a chance make a change take a risk and breakaway" (excerpt from Kelly Clarkson's Breakaway)
2006-06-27 15:28:57 · answer #11 · answered by angelsiege11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋