Well i met this guy threw friends, and it seemed like he liked me i mean we kissed and he followed me every where at this party. Then i never herd from him and then i went with his friend to the movies and he was there and of corse he had to sit right by us. Then the movie was over and he sent me text and was like, I see how it is your with me then with my friend and i was like well you never called. So then we started texting on the phone every day. But he never wanted to out of his way to see me he only saw me if we ran into each other at friends houses witch is like 2 or 3 times a week. I realy like him and i asked him if he likes me and he always beats around the bush he will say stuff like im with you right now arnt i, or you have no idea, but he will never come out and say yes i like you. I mean he acts jealous when other people pic up on me or when his friends do. But he just never calls or wants to hang out alon. O ya he also drinks alot that might have something to do with it.
2006-06-27 14:42:53 · 10 answers · asked by missy :) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy sounds like he might be interested: but only if it's convenient:
1. if he doesn't have to risk opening up to tell you how he really feels
2. if he doesn't have to make any effort to get together with you.
3. and a big drinker? he's got a lot of issues he's just trying to self medicate...
Do not pass go. Do not collect $200. Run, do not walk away from this guy.
Make yourself this promise:
1. I can be friends with this guy. If he chooses to act like he's actively intesested, I can go out with him. If he makes an effort, I will make an effort.
2. I will not make the first move. Let him come to me.
Remember: You... are the prize!!
2006-06-27 14:59:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋
Please understand that guys can be "into" you for different reasons and for different lengths of time. What exactly do you want from him? A long term relationship? A few dates?
This guy already gave you an answer. He's "into" you when it's convenient. But not so into you that he'll go out of his way to find you or spend time with you. Drinking has nothing to do with it.
Believe me, when a guy is into you, you'll know it. He will call. He will want to hang out alone.
So what if he acts jealous? That only means he is not a nice guy. He wants you "on hold" but not for a real girlfriend.
You're worth more than that.
2006-06-27 14:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by hope03 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well wht you should do; next time when you run into him is take him into a seperate room look him strate in the eyes and say "DO YOU LIKE ME? yes or no " i hope it works out for the best!
2006-06-27 14:48:44 · answer #3 · answered by LOvebug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love tomboy, or a minimum of non-stererotypical women. women who arent afraid to have their own personality and hate all the cliquey conventional women with the faux faces. dislike emo dislike present day punk, yet like a lady with a good appreciation of previous punk music no longer something adverse to silent if i'm able to get her to open up same with shy swears plenty isnt a prob for me
2016-11-15 08:30:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't willing to go out of his way for you, then he isn't good enough for you and isn't really into you that much. He's just playing around. Drop him and move on, you will certainly find better.
2006-06-27 14:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by thewildeman2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? From reading your long question, it is obvious you should concentrate more on school and stop with the boys until you're older. Your spelling is terrible!
2006-06-27 14:46:31 · answer #6 · answered by Cyndie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way he looks at you, the way he acts when arounds you, if he finds any little reason to see you or talk to you.... Then you know....
2006-06-27 14:45:27 · answer #7 · answered by import_lover2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably has to drink a lot just to tolerate your poor grammar and spelling.
2006-06-27 14:46:47 · answer #8 · answered by sherryjsj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He drinks and follows cute girls around.
Dump him.
2006-06-27 14:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um fo me i know cuz the guys always touchin me or staring ALOT...and etc.
2006-06-27 14:44:20 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋