have nothing in common but when I meet a guy that has similiar interests and I would like as a friend, there are not attractive to me. I have met guys that I wouldn't mind having as friends, but after all guys aren't looking for friends on a dating site, they are looking for a relationship. People say looks don't matter, and as far as friendship and compatibility they don't, but when it comes to anyting romantic or physical, I'm sorry but it does matter. I wouldn't want to kiss a guy with hideous teeth, or do anything else with a guy who is obese, ugly, or anything else. I have met guys who are "pleasant looking" but not someone I would want to be romantic with. Whenever I meet a guy that I find attractive and sexy, he snobs me or just seems to have interests that I can't pretend to enjoy or is relectunt to discuss a common interest like travel, children, or music.
2006-06-27 14:39:00 · 3 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not overweight, my teeth look o.k. I am rejected because I dont' have a college degree or an important job which I am upfront about so they know that before we meet where as they seem to post waist up photos only and hide their teeth and fail to mention being married multiple times. They are being deceptive in their description so I have a right to not be attracted. As far as love growing from friendship and common interests , I agree that could happen but it seems every guys wants to get physical right away. I might give a guy that I am not that attracted to a chance and get to know him but when he is trying to kiss me after the first meeting and wanting me to come over to his place for the second date, well I avoid him by all means.
2006-06-27 15:20:57 · update #1
well thats the way it goes in relationships
2006-06-27 14:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have hideous teeth? Are you obese or ugly or anything else? Are you merely pleasant looking? Examine what it is you are looking for and don't complain when others are being as picky as you are. Maybe the ones you find sexy and attractive don't find you sexy and attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Friendship can certainly grow into something much deeper and lasting than sex appeal. If all you want is a tumble in the rack then look for the sexy and attractive men. But if you truly want a more meaningful relationship with a man you're going to have to look past the outer shell. Guys who look like you won them in the lottery know they are good-looking and they are a dime a dozen. Look for a man who treats you like a queen, who opens doors for you and holds your hand just for the moment you can share in that simple touch. And be a lady that that kind of man would want to be with. Be respectable. Like mama always said, "Love is like a drop of dew; it'd as soon fall on a cow pile as a rose petal."
2006-06-27 15:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is natural. Go play around with some magnets, south repells south, same with N to N. S to N atract. I believe that God wants it this way. If your standing back to back with your parnter, the common is posperity, and you really do have eyes in the back of your head.
2006-06-27 15:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋