what do you think about people who want to adopt a child and then deicied that they really didnt want that child. But that child has no choice in the matter? The parents end up getting a divorce and the home becomes a nighmare. Is that fair to the child? And then to top it all off, the child comes from an Native American background, but that is kept secret.
2006-06-27 14:38:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The same thing happens to children that the parents procreate themselves, too -- maybe even moreso, because it's harder to adopt than it is to get knocked-up.
2006-06-27 14:41:09 · answer #1 · answered by HearKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately whether through adoption or natural means, sometimes children end up in a bad situation. I saw one couple abuse their adopted children but I was too young to do anything about it. I wonder what those kids grew up to think about adoption? They would have been better left in an orphange I think.
If you think the situation is bad enough and there is a service you can call to assist in this matter, then call them for the child's sake.
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2006-06-27 21:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by anything_my_child 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if the child was with his or her natural parents, it's very possible that the very same would happen. It's a natural occurance that many children, adopted and not, see. It's not their fault. They are innocent casualties, and all we as humans can do is take the pain from them as best we can. Be their crutch and ease their broken little souls down the path of life.
It's not fair, not at all, but life isn't very fair.
2006-06-27 21:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if you want to adopt a child you should first wait and make sure that's what you want and no matter what be there for that child many parents get a divorce and its something that most children go through i think that no matter what happens the parents should still be there for there children i think its wrong for a parent to adopt and when things don't work out between the parents they don't want that child that they wanted and raised
2006-06-27 22:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this you, your talking about the adopted child.
Hell no people shouldn't adopt if they don't really want a child, people should really evaluate themselves, their spouse and life and future before bring another life into their. Be it adoption, foster or biological. Its not just about adopted his or foster kids this happens to this is life. Sad thing is most of the people who don't make their lives work or end up with bad relationships or end up being miserable and torchering other by rubbing off on them, these people never learned how to get over their youth, discover themselves in their twenties and continue to grow and mature. everyone wants to blame someone for their messed up life. We all have to take responsibility for ourselves, **** hurts absolutley!!! It can affect us, but if we let it control us, it can ruin our and everyone in contact with us's life.
Not trying to be a down, but life is hard on everyone and we all need to find our one strength GOD and let that strengthen us
2006-06-27 21:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by Carmalee F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think that is rt the mother who probably gave up the child wanted the best for him or her and then the popele she gives them to splits up that is not right at all
2006-06-27 21:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by And life goes on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ,is my answer but I should also say that sometimes life seems not to be fair under certain circumstances
2006-06-27 21:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they should no better they would have been better off with someone else in a way...
2006-06-27 21:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course its not fair
2006-06-27 21:42:14 · answer #9 · answered by scared_numb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds pretty uncool, in my opinion.
2006-06-27 21:42:52 · answer #10 · answered by Surfwax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋