well i have a boyfriend and things aren't working good and is b cuz his attitute is hell he knows i cant talk to him by the phone b cuz of his irrespect towards my family and i told him i want out 2 weeks ago but he keeps calling and i dont like wat he's doing but he is a kool guy so i dont want to hurt his feelings....
2006-06-27 14:30:03 · 13 answers · asked by norma r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You said he has no respect for your family and therefore can't call you?? Hmmm... girl, you may want to just walk away and not try to be friends with this one. Can we say stalker? How kool can he be if you don't like what he is doing? You deserve respect too and your feelings are the most important here- you need to be kind to others, but you don't have to let them make you feel bad either.
2006-06-27 14:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think about how much of this do you want to put up with and is hurting his feelings going to be as bad as you will feel if you have to put up with him day in and day out. You only live so many years and why put up with something when you don't want to. At some point you will have to confront him to get free from his grasp. Be it today or be it next week or a year from now. You know it is going to happen so may as well get it started and on the way to being over with. If you hurt his feelings he will be stronger the next time he gets dumped and he will get dumped again. So will you. It happens to everyone.
2006-06-27 14:38:23 · answer #2 · answered by Itsme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried so much about hurting his feelings when he's not worried about showing disrespect to you or your family? Next time he calls, remind him that you told him 2 weeks ago it was over and now you feel the need to follow through with it...wish him well, and then say goodbye and don't take his calls after that...
It's likely to sting a bit...having someone break up with you isn't supposed to be fun (if it didn't hurt, it means ya didn't really care anything for them). But you need to be concerned about you...be ask kind and tactful as you can, but don't waste time dragging out a situation you know isn't working...it's unfair to you and to him...
2006-06-27 14:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you already kind of broke up with him? but he wont leave you alone? sounds like youve got a stalker. tell him firmly that you do not want to have a sexual realtionship anymore, tell him the reasons. if you still want to be friends, see him in moderation for the next few weeks, dont accept calls or answer emails or IMs. if you dont want to be friends yet he continues to stick around, get a restraining order.
2006-06-27 14:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like u did so it the nice way, but it didn't work if he still calling. Do it this way, look I'm sorry but I don't want 2 b with u any more, and if u don't stop calling me, I'm going 2 change my number , ok get .
2006-06-27 14:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by ymomzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u want someone who has no respect 4 yr family
tell to get a life and to stop calling that you cant see yr self with someone who doesn't get along with yr family
just remember guy may come and go but a family there always there for u so good luck
2006-06-27 14:40:00 · answer #6 · answered by sunshinegal0117 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves you than it doesn't matter how you tell him he's gonna get hurt wether he shows you or not, but you have to be as nice as possible, telling somone it's over is never a easy thing to do, explain to him your not happy and tell him the reasons why your not happy, maybe he can change and things will work out, but if you don't love anymore than you have to tell him a.s.a.p and do it alone, just you and him, goodluck
2006-06-27 14:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel about it and don't give into anything he says(if he really likes you he'll say whatever it takes to keep you)so be strong and stay sweet until he gets nasty...then you shouldn't care about his feelings...
2006-06-27 14:33:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not like it but tell him it's not working and that you would like to stay friends. Be up front and truthful
2006-06-27 14:32:45 · answer #9 · answered by christine.wallace628 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the chump, once and for all. Sounds like a loser to me.
2006-06-27 14:32:38 · answer #10 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋