2006-06-27 14:23:30 · 28 answers · asked by tamilia4u 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know someone that is 34 and he has never had sex
2006-06-27 14:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by cup cake 2 · 6⤊ 3⤋
No, Tammy that is very uncommon. If a man in his mid thirties told me that he had not had sex, ever in his life, I would definitely consider the credibility of his answer. I would think hard about how he acted when he said that. I would find it very hard to believe him without knowing him very well and knowing that there were circumstances that caused that to be the case. Some men find intimacy scarey, just as some women do, and may find it difficult to become close to someone enough to have that happen, or may be a germaphobe. The only man I have ever known to be over 30 and a virgin was what we call "very socially backward" he had many social interaction eccentricities... you'd believe them right away because they would generally be considered "odd."
2006-06-27 21:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by octavie_twilight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine that happening very often, maybe you got hormone problems, no libido. dude , if you don't have an urge for sex, you should have it checked out, you are getting up there in the years to start living now. a good portion of the hungry years have passed you by. you have the sexual maturity of an infant, how you gonna find someone that matches your level of sexual maturity? go buy a prostitute and at least get some experience.
2006-06-27 21:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u asking that is it possible to have male virgins of mid-30s?
if so, may be they waited or didn't really feel the need of sexual activeness. i know some south asian men like that. or may be, they have been so geeky or nerdy that women didn't really feel like having sex with them...
it is not awfully common, but it is not a harmful thing...
2006-06-27 21:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by answerer101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not common but can happen. They may be straight up abstinent, or haven't found the right person yet. If the later is true, be careful because they may become clingy by being their first.
2006-06-27 21:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by Dark Syder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It is getting more and more uncommon every day. Society is alot more laid back on sexual issues than they were say ten years ago. Even your nerdiest nerds (speaking strictly of stereotype) is getting theirs before they turn 20 in most cases. You hardly ever hear of someone who wants to wait until they get married either. It's just how society has changed.
2006-06-27 21:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by thewildeman2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not common in places such as the U.S, all depends on the society and social culture. Religion and Society in different locations will be the foundation for whether it is normal or even common for a man not to engage in sexual activities.
2006-06-27 21:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually I know a guy that is like 30 sum and has never gotten any...it's kinda sad but it can happen...it's not a super common thing but it's possible.
2006-06-27 21:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
common i'm not sure so i can't say
but normal of course!!
sex is a personal choice and if u decide never to have sex or to wait then that's on u ... ur missing out tho
2006-06-27 21:26:30 · answer #9 · answered by dvlndskyz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds kinda extreme, but it is possble - he might have wanted to wait for a serious relationship and one never came around. his lifestyle may have also blocked him from having sex. he might be one of those nice guys who never just wanted to have a one night stand and was too busy to have a relationship or never found someone. you never know - y not just ask him, u might get an unexpected answer
2006-06-27 21:27:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possible, but unlikely, but weird things do happen. There was that movie, I meant to see, the forty year old virgin.
2006-06-27 21:26:16 · answer #11 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋