I'm a lesbian,and I met her through another friend of mine.We all went to the beach.Me and her became friends.We talked on the phone and all then a couple of days later she askedme out.i like her and everything but I'm gonna be 16 soon and i just wanna know if its right?? plz help me out I'm very confused.Oh and don't leave rude comments this is a serious question.
2006-06-27 14:09:58 · 17 answers · asked by Dubey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes it is absolutely normal. what people have to learn is that age is just a number. it doesn't matter if your twenty and shes thirteen if two people love each other its up to them whether or not they should date. what you have to ask yourself is do you truly love her???if so than yes you should still date her regardless of what anybody says.
2006-06-27 14:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it would be wrong -- not because you are a lesbian, but from the difference in ages. While 3 years is not a lot, at this stage (you 16 and she 13), it is almost like a world between the two of you. There are drastically different levels of maturity between a 16 year old and a 13 year old. I do not think that she is mature enough to be in a relationship -- especially with a 16 year old. Imagine if her parents found out.
I would remain good friends with her, and while time passes, perhaps the two of you might find yourselves drawn into a relationship after she has matured more.
2006-06-27 14:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by LewAR26502 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. This is a loaded question. First, in my opinion, 13 is much to young to be dating anyone. Second, 13 year olds certainly can not say whether or not they are gay. I'm a little concerned that you are already stating that you are a lesbian at 16. Please let her go on. Be her friend, but let it stop there. Don't introduce her to things that she has no understanding of.
2006-06-27 14:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mom of 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is 4 me but if ur 16 its not right wen u think bout it its wrong a 16 yr old going out with a 13 yr old i dont think that u should do it
2006-06-27 14:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by platinum_rem_remi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya its right theres nothing against it i mean if you like her then go for it you shouldnt hold back if you were 18 though it would be wrong but for now its all kool and its not like its going to be a long time relationship you already know that cuz of the age diff. but good luck and i hope you go for it!!!
2006-06-27 14:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by sexii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A three year age difference dont really matter so if yoou like her go for it because you never know it could be real love and your soul mate but yoou wont know unless you go for it
Good luck
2006-06-27 14:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by crystal a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it isnt right, a 13 year old is still considerd as a child, he/she does not have the full knowledge or understandance to know the importance of a relationsip, he/she my get confused in feelings, example..they may get emotional attachment confused with love.
2006-06-27 14:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by fox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you really like her and she likes you which is obvious because she asked you out then i don't see anything wrong wit that. As long as you don't do anything you're not supposed to than it's all cool. Go for it.
2006-06-27 14:13:43 · answer #8 · answered by LaColombiana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no... If she is only 13, she isn't ready for a relationship. She is a child, you know. Go for your own age. Keep searching.
2006-06-27 14:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by Emily :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should go for it if you really like each other. When you're 33 and she's 30 no one will care.
2006-06-27 14:19:40 · answer #10 · answered by Julia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋