So I had been dating this girl for about 3 years and in the last 6 months or so I noticed she started acting differently, would blow me off constantly, wouldn't come out to clubs with us, and wouldn't bring me to see her family anymore. A few days ago I found out she had been dating another guy for these 6 months. I just turned around and left. Now I really want to know why she would string me along. Should I call her and talk about it?
2006-06-27 14:08:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no ,cuz what ever her anwser is,it wont make you feel any better, trust me i know
2006-06-27 14:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by nate diggitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should. You deserve an explanation. It was better at the time to just turn around and leave rather than go mental and say things you didn't mean or do things you didn't mean but now you have calmed down a bit and got over the initial shock, of course you are gonna want to know why. Three years is a long time to be with someone for them to treat you with such disregard. Call her and maybe you can find out what went wrong so that you don't make that mistake when the girl of your dreams walks into your life!
Good luck!
2006-06-27 14:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by Tatsbabe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't need.Once the heart have change there is no turning back. Love comes without we invite and it goes without our stop.The more you know the truth the more you will feel hurt.Once you hurt it take time for you to recover.Since she is like that, she is not worth for it.If she can go for other guys, so do you.Hey, people said "For a guy, one girl gone, ten girl come".
Cheer up.I know you are angry and disappointed.I have gone through it before and i know how it feel.It took me one and half year to recover.But i learn my lesson.Guy, remember this. Everything happened for a reason.It just a simple sentence but it bring a deep meaning if you fully understand it.I'm sure you learn your lesson from the past relationship.Take it as something to guide you in your future relationship.Don't worry, i know you are good looking.Everyone in this world have its own strength.She don't appreciate but but doesn't mean the rest of the people don't appreciate you.You will find the right person soon.Don't worry.
I know...3 years relationship.It would be better that you knwo her now in stead of the future when you have the bonding with her.
2006-06-27 14:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by kitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's really bothering you to ask her why, then you should be. After all, you have every right to ask her. At least you will know if something's wrong with you or with her. There's only one way to find out, ask her. Just remember to approach her personally. If you'll just give her a call, she can say she's busy or something, in short, hide to you. Asking her personally can straighten things out between the two of you. Just be sure that you're not going back to her, ok? She doesn't deserve your love and affection.
2006-06-27 14:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by eara1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love her and u would seriously want to know why after 3 years together in the last 6 months she'd been cheating well then call her. i know that when my ex-boyfriend had cheated on me and i found out i just walked away and never kept in touch with him and i feel bad now but it wasnt my fault it was all his problems. i never found out why. but dont do what i did, do whats best for u and call her. ask her why and tell her how u felt when u found out. good luck with that
2006-06-27 14:16:18 · answer #5 · answered by maria c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because it'll just reignite the fire. Let it go, Let her go, move on with your life. Everything happens for a reason. She just wasn't the girl for you and things happen sometimes for the better. Forget her, there's alot more fish in the sea of life.
2006-06-27 14:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure... of course u should!
You should know the reason the person u love would turn around, and stab you in the back..
and if it has to do with u, try to fix wat u did wrong, and try to work out your relationship... a 3 year relationship shouldnt just be thrown away
GOOD LUCK!
2006-06-27 14:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by GC_RiotGrl_879 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You would be just setting yourself up for a thrashing if you did that. If she cheated once, she'll do you again. Get another girl and get over it.
2006-06-27 14:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by GRUMPY1LUVS2EAT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont even think about it dude, just forget her and try to find a real girl that know how to love and try to be happy with someone else, try to go out with friends.
2006-06-27 14:12:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly females do unlike being referred to as that haha. yet once you have apologized and from what you're asserting you rather love her...i think of you ought to attempt chatting along with her...yet while she isn't the kind that likes speaking approximately that stuff and gets mad, it is your decision. yet i think of in case you the two are not in a position to have confidence one yet another completely, i think of you ought to talk along with her. do not accuse her of something. merely share your concerns and tell her you love her and which you rather choose this to artwork and and additionally you in user-friendly terms opt to talk to her. in case you in user-friendly terms choose her to forgive you and merely bypass the completed speaking then get her vegetation haha.
2016-12-08 13:19:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just let it go and try to move on. obviously she didnt think that the relationship was that important so move on find someone better. dont call her she dont deserve you.
2006-06-27 14:12:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋